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[Anonymous]

What would you do if your husband just shoved his junk in your face and asked for a kiss or a rub? Normally I beg for sex, he wants it once every week or two and I would love to have it two to three times a day. Well I had been basically dying for "it" and he just ask for a oral or a hand job and I'm dying cause I know now that he has gotten his he won't want to do anything for a week or so. 

[LoveMyLos]

I wouldnt of given him anything unless it was actual sex. He seems selfish.

[MamaBuck09]

Agreed! I don't give unless i receive

Quoting LoveMyLos:

I wouldnt of given him anything unless it was actual sex. He seems selfish.

[Anonymous - Original Poster]

To me, that seems selfish. You can't only give if you get. Sometimes it is about pleasing your spouse, it just seems lately he is getting more than giving.

Quoting MamaBuck09:

Agreed! I don't give unless i receive

Quoting LoveMyLos:

I wouldnt of given him anything unless it was actual sex. He seems selfish.

[Mummy_2_b]

My boyfriend does this same thing! When I try an come up to have actual sex he shoves my head back down there?

[Anonymous]

Wtf is wrong with guys these days!!!

[jenn75]

I agree to an extent. If your guy is being an ass and won't do ANYTHING for you then selfish deserves selfish.

Quoting Anonymous:

To me, that seems selfish. You can't only give if you get. Sometimes it is about pleasing your spouse, it just seems lately he is getting more than giving.

Quoting MamaBuck09:

Agreed! I don't give unless i receive

Quoting LoveMyLos:

I wouldnt of given him anything unless it was actual sex. He seems selfish.

[butcher]

 i wud lay on the couch in front of him playing with ur self and get him all worked up....then walk away. pay backs are a bitch.

[tifbrown]

Start telling him that you won't give until you receive. My husband knows that and knows that if he wants some he had better return the favor.

[Anonymous]

I agree that you should be able to please your so with expecting anything in return. But it shouldn't be ALL about him. It shouldn't be that you please him, get nothing in return and won't get anything in return until HE is ready again. That's not equal. So, tomorrow shove your junk in his face and ask for a kiss or lick. Put it into perspective for him.

[Kes1s]

I would take matter into my own hands.  Make a point of being on the couch getting yourself a bit of yourself when he gets home, and when asked what the deal is, tell your man his pu$$y is neglected and you're rubbing it because he wont.

If you really want to go whole hog, get a sitter, have a martini wear really high heels and put on a porno while you do it.  Has to be in the light of day though.  Make him wonder what you're doing all by yourself during the days ;-)

If that doesn't fix it, nothing will.  Sometimes we need to speak in different voices to be heard.