Ladies please I really need some help, ok for startes what kinds of lube do you like and why? I have low estrogen levels and it hurts when I have sex I heard lube helps this, but I have never even thought or looked at lube before and have no idea about the first thing.
Second a pervious bc has messed me up and I need to stay off of bc until my body regulates and at the end of this month I will be seeing my so. What other contraceptives do you like and why? I need some help I know condoms but I'm worried they will hurt even with lube since I have low levels of estrogen.
Third my so has said that he would love to try breast milk, granted I haven't breast fed in about a year but if you squeeze there's a drop or two that comes out and more than that if I take a hot shower and massage them. I am kinda not sure about this.. Does anyone have experince with there so being curious about breast milk?
Fourth my so wants me to be dominat and I tried to tonight ( though phone ofcorse) I sent him dirty pics wouldn't let him touch himself until I wanted him to and once he started I have never seen him cum so fast or hard before. So does anyone have any ideas about how I can learn to become a little more forceful in the bedroom. He likes a little bdsm but not much, very light and just in the bed room.
Lastly I am very uncomfortable with my body and have a hard time relaxing from that and many other things that have happened in my life what are ways you suggest I can learn to relax. Blindfolds? Candles? Music? Help anything