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DS saw Daddy hit Mommy.

Anonymous
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So I figured this would be the best group to ask advice for this.

I don't know HOW...I didn't see him or hear him, and our door is usually always locked,

But my son said today he heard me yelling, so he came to check on me. He then saw his dad smacking me. I'm assuming 'spanking' me.

He never said anything, and I didn't know he saw this until he told me this morning.

WHAT the heck do I say to him??
I told him we were running late and I would talk to him later tonight about it.
He is 5 by the way.

Thanks!
Posted by Anonymous on Dec. 18, 2012 at 6:32 PM
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Anonymous
by Anonymous 2 on Dec. 18, 2012 at 6:34 PM
Why are you with someone that hits you?
jenn75
by Gold Member on Dec. 18, 2012 at 6:36 PM
Tell him you were being naughty and you were getting your spanking.
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jenn75
by Gold Member on Dec. 18, 2012 at 6:37 PM
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I dont think she meant it as abusive hitting but sexual.


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Why are you with someone that hits you?

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Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Dec. 18, 2012 at 6:38 PM
He doesn't hit me lol.
Well except occasional smacking my ass during sex. Which is what I assume he's talking about.
That's all.
I am not even into beating or roughness during sex or anything like that.
The yelling was during sex.

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Why are you with someone that hits you?


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scarletlolita76
by on Dec. 18, 2012 at 6:38 PM
Thats what I would tell him too!

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Tell him you were being naughty and you were getting your spanking.
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Anonymous
by Anonymous 2 on Dec. 18, 2012 at 6:39 PM
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oh okay lol, i guess i misunderstood.
hello_kitty25
by on Dec. 18, 2012 at 6:40 PM

 holy crap this made me laugh so hard omg. my dd is 5 and i dont know what i would say! maybe "oh we were just playing around, just being funny!" lol

Anonymous
by Anonymous 3 on Dec. 18, 2012 at 6:41 PM
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I think it's time to learn how to have sex without screaming while your child is home. I'm sure it's quite disconcerting to a small child.
Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Dec. 18, 2012 at 6:44 PM
Yes you're right.
I really didn't think I was that bad and he usually doesn't wake up for anything.
Lesson learned.

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I think it's time to learn how to have sex without screaming while your child is home. I'm sure it's quite disconcerting to a small child.


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by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Dec. 18, 2012 at 6:45 PM
I think I will say something like that.
Maybe we were just wrestling....idk lol


Quoting hello_kitty25:

 holy crap this made me laugh so hard omg. my dd is 5 and i dont know what i would say! maybe "oh we were just playing around, just being funny!" lol


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