sexy thoughts about my long lost first boyfriend

[Anonymous]

okay... so my first boyfriend contacted me after more than 20 years....A lot have happened since then, I lived on a dfferent continent, we both went through alot, and now he appeared ...and something strange happend...I cannot stop thinking of him. He was my first love and my first boyfreind. Everything "first" was with him. I was 17 , he was 20 at that time..and now I am divorced with kids, he is married, but he calls me every day and I can't stop thinking about him. I fanatsize about him, I picture us making love, I'm flirting with him on the phone,although I even met his wife and I know shouldn't even think about him at all....Help, please... Did something like this happened to you??? 

[Anonymous]

Honestly, you'll save yourself a world of hurt if by not getting involved with a married man.  You deserve better.

[SareyF]

If he's married, take a step back. Think of how you'd feel if the tables were turned.

[Anonymous - Original Poster]

i know..this kills me. 

[Anonymous]

I just don't get it?? Why flirt with a married man?? I just don't get why sone women do that? Just because your alone why try and mess up somebody's marriage?? I'm not tryin to bash or anything I just really don't get it! I would never mess with a married man because if he wanted you he wouldn't be with her all you will be is the "other woman" so why put you or your kids threw that. Just sayin I wouldn't mess with a married man!

[MomRocs1102]

Help you what?  you already know you and him are both wrong.  He has a wife you have met the wife which makes it even more lowdown.  Step back and look at the situation for what it really is bs, and move on.  If you decide not to move on then you'll deal with Karma later. 

[Anonymous - Original Poster]

i know, i know.. shit, I don't want to ruin his marriage. I have to stop answering his calls , I guess....We don't see each other often so it will be easier...I just got a little wimpy for awhile. But you guys are right.

[Anonymous]

I know with verizon you can go online and block up to 5 numbers from calling you.  Other phone plans might have the same option.  If it's killing you that he's married, let that also kill the feelings that you have for him.  There are many other men out there, that are single.

[nothinbutsmiles]

Leave it in the past. You're both playing with fire.

[Anonymous]

I had a women do this to me and my dh about 9 yrs ago. It almost broke us up, I was pregnant with my oldest!! We are better now but it to alot to get over!! Don't do it!!! It hurts both sides!!

[Anonymous]

 I think about my first love all the time. but after high school he ended up coming out of the closet. And yes he still has some of my heart, But that man sure has a body. hee hee