A little different from the question of do you pee in front of DH, or with him in the shower:
Mine is interested in seeing me pee; not only of me in the act of sitting and peeing, but seeing my stream flow from me up close. He also enjoys listening to the "hiss" of my releasing it. I now do allow DH to watch me as close up as he dares. Often I'm on the lavatory seat (I'm inviting him in now when I have to go), but I have squatted for him bare in the tub (he's seated outside on the edge). While I'm seated on the lavatory, he has touched me 'til I was ready and could pee except for the first couple of times; I took a little long otherwise. It would be too quiet, and he would just stare not wanting to miss it as I positioned myself forward, legs parted (his pants open, visibily exhibiting his unmistakable excitement).
The first time I looked up at the ceiling waiting for him to be done looking at me, and now I hold his hand feeling myself smile watching him look at me so intently. He's looked up to see my face to show his appreciation, or to see my reaction, but given that I may not take long to pee, I've suggested he keep his eyes focused down below.
He's happy (so happy!) merely watching (no wet contact).
Others out there similarly enjoy this sort of sharing?