I had a breast reduction and dh wants nothing to do with me now :(
It's been about 2.5 months since I went from a HUGH 38K down to I think a C cup maybe a D. I haven't been measured yet. My reduction took off 7lbs and I had to have a nipple graft done... meaning they removed my nippled and grafted it back on. The nipples have no feeling and look... odd. Flat, splochy...
We've had sex twice. The first time it had been almost 2 months since the surgery. It was dark so he didn't see, but he took one feel and said "I don't like small boobs" and then a few minutes later he tells me that maybe if I loose more weight in my stomach the boobs will look better. (I've lost 60lbs and have about 45 more to go)
He's really not insensitive so much as he is tactless.
It really upset me! It's kind of worst case senerio aside from loosing the nipples all together. I feel like he is no longer attracted to me :(
Any advice or suggestions to help me through this?