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Too shy

Posted by on Jan. 1, 2013 at 10:17 AM
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My bf and I have been together a year and our sex is mundane, but great. If it was up to me nothing would change, but I can tell he's getting bored. Which he confirmed for ne last night. He said that we don't do it enough and he wishes I'd be more active in the whole ordeal. I told him I would try to, but when my clothes come off my confidence goes with them. He likes to have the lights on, we compromise with the dimmer or candles depending on the mood. But when I notice him looking at me I freeze and now that I've had our son I won't even change ob front of him. I don't know why I can't shake this shy crapy, but I really want to. Any pointers ob how to relax ob the bedroom and get comfortable with my new body?
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jenn75
by Gold Member on Jan. 1, 2013 at 11:02 AM
Fake it until you make it.
Consider it like roll play, he's not not really seeing YOU he's seeing a sexy minx that looks just like you.

In the meantime, stop being sooooo hard on yourself! He CHOOSES to look at you, let him. He's oviously enjoying the view. Confidence is sexy.
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