How can we say we love someone if we are willing to cheat?? Im married an in 2011 I stepped out my marriage for the 1St time. The whole experience was mind blowing we went at it for a good 6mos stopped thn started back n sept shldve never rekindled tht flame.. Guess he thought I wouldn't mind just being a good screw whnever he Wanted it an mayb thts where i did mess up catchin feelings an i hve a really great Husband.Mean while im crazy about ths guy didn't want to bring him in my new yr.. But struggling with the dh I don't even want to have sex unless it's with ths other guy
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on Jan. 2, 2013 at 1:23 AM
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I have nothing good to say to you. I think you are selfish and there is not a reason in the world that could excuse what you're doing. Come clean. Then do everyone a favor and focus on being solo and getting your shit figured out before you hurt even more people.
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by Anonymous - Original Poster
on Jan. 2, 2013 at 1:35 AM
I would never tell him sum things are better left unsaid if I choose to never stop then yes I will but since it's something I'm strugglin wit I'll stay quite after all I don't want to leave my husband so whn u say selfish I can't help but agree. However I needed the honesty idc if good or bad I needed to hear sumthng
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on Jan. 2, 2013 at 1:45 AM
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If you loved him and didn't want to lose him, you would never have started this, much less continued it and struggle over it still to this moment.
Quoting Anonymous:
I would never tell him sum things are better left unsaid if I choose to never stop then yes I will but since it's something I'm strugglin wit I'll stay quite after all I don't want to leave my husband so whn u say selfish I can't help but agree. However I needed the honesty idc if good or bad I needed to hear sumthng
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on Jan. 2, 2013 at 1:48 AM
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He will find out on his own. You need to stop if you want to continue your marriage. If you don't want to stay faithful- there's this awesome thing called a divorce. Get one.
Smh.
Smh.
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by Anonymous - Original Poster
on Jan. 2, 2013 at 2:29 AM
Ur right.. I've even said if I fall in love with Jesus I knw everything else will come together for the good.. Somethings come by fasting an praying even David had a lust problem an many wives David is in the Bible not my husband lol just to be clear.. But yes im trying to get the feelings bck right... I feel love is a action before it become a emotion
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Curiosity killed the cat. You should try and rekindle yours and dh's relationship go on dates or something.
by Anonymous - Original Poster
on Jan. 2, 2013 at 2:38 AM
Llc I would be the num1 divorcee.. naw think I better get Thur ths1 figure out why I indulge in such acts.. An im never one to feel I can't get caught u could b right cuz whts dne n the dark it shall find light.. Guess im looking for sum1 who has gone Thur ths.. Im so happy for u ladies who can control urself ur strength is my weakness
Quoting Ninjascreenname:
He will find out on his own. You need to stop if you want to continue your marriage. If you don't want to stay faithful- there's this awesome thing called a divorce. Get one.
Smh.
by Anonymous
on Jan. 2, 2013 at 2:51 AM
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You know what that last part you are right about it happened with my husband when I married him I dint love him but I did and he did what a person would do if they loved that person lol I hope that was understood anyway and now I'm in love with him. Also if you do try and live a christ like life it will probably help in your decision making out helped me.
Quoting Anonymous:
Ur right.. I've even said if I fall in love with Jesus I knw everything else will come together for the good.. Somethings come by fasting an praying even David had a lust problem an many wives David is in the Bible not my husband lol just to be clear.. But yes im trying to get the feelings bck right... I feel love is a action before it become a emotion
Quoting Anonymous:
Curiosity killed the cat. You should try and rekindle yours and dh's relationship go on dates or something.
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on Jan. 2, 2013 at 4:39 AM
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if you are I n a relationship and find yourself messing around with someone e else and in the midst of it all can't figure out which one or who to choose.....choose the second person because I f you loved the first one you wouldn't have found another
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