Quoting expectnanother:i don't understand why you said you completely disagree because i said basically what you said in not as manymany words but i do completely agree with how you put this
Quoting SareyF:
I completely disagree. Staying in love is a choice. Keeping heart and heat in the marriage is a choice. You must actively put into it to get out what you need. New relationships seem great because they are new. That means excitement and butterflies and attention at all times. That luster wears off and then you're looking for the next. OR you work on your marriage and it is amazing.
Quoting expectnanother:if you are I n a relationship and find yourself messing around with someone e else and in the midst of it all can't figure out which one or who to choose.....choose the second person because I f you loved the first one you wouldn't have found another
Quoting Anonymous:
Sorry sweetie, but you clearly look ignorant, not only with your spelling but also cheating on your husband. The man your cheating with only wants you cause your giving him a piece of ass with no strings attached. All the while your falling in love with someone who does not really want to be with you. What makes you think that he doesn't see what your really about? If you can't see it I will tell you, you're a piece of ass that he gets to get his dick dirty for a couple hours, doesn't have to support you or buy you gifts to keep you happy. He just has to slip you some cock every now and then and call it a day.
Quoting Anonymous:
Llc sweetie if u don't understand which u clearly don't cuz u said it not me! Just skip cuz u wasted time writing nothing.. But becuz u did I'll at least do ths I will say u must just spend alot of time on cafemom thts fine not judging u but I quickly text thn go on to household things or I could b at wrk I sit behind a desk but still don't get paid to mke sure erry wrd I type on cafemom is correct for those who can read dummy quick text just shws how smarter they are an sweetie im really just saying im not being smart at u
Quoting Anonymous:
Where did you learn how to spell?
Quoting SareyF:
It sounds to me when reading it, that you are encouraging a person to move on rather than to improve what they already have. The new guy isn't going to make her happy either, at some point. You said choose the second guy. I think she should come clean and work on her marriage if he is willing or be alone until she can figure out her crap cause this stuff is never okay, and the fault lies in something within her. If she doesn't do some work, she's going to end up here over and over.
Quoting expectnanother:i don't understand why you said you completely disagree because i said basically what you said in not as manymany words but i do completely agree with how you put this
Quoting SareyF:
I completely disagree. Staying in love is a choice. Keeping heart and heat in the marriage is a choice. You must actively put into it to get out what you need. New relationships seem great because they are new. That means excitement and butterflies and attention at all times. That luster wears off and then you're looking for the next. OR you work on your marriage and it is amazing.
Quoting expectnanother:if you are I n a relationship and find yourself messing around with someone e else and in the midst of it all can't figure out which one or who to choose.....choose the second person because I f you loved the first one you wouldn't have found another
Quoting Kandac3:
Quoting Ninjascreenname:
He will find out on his own. You need to stop if you want to continue your marriage. If you don't want to stay faithful- there's this awesome thing called a divorce. Get one.
Smh.
I'm not judging, but this is sooo trueeee.
good point but if she gave another guy that chance then the first onewasnt her main priority. so i said she should choose the second. but of course if there is any way that she feels it can be fixed by all means do that. but i don't think that will happen by the way she is talking.she is already in to deep emotionally with this second man.by taking it out on other people because she hadn't heard from her mystery man is crazy.but i do understand what you mean bout trying to fix it before giving in
Quoting SareyF:
It sounds to me when reading it, that you are encouraging a person to move on rather than to improve what they already have. The new guy isn't going to make her happy either, at some point. You said choose the second guy. I think she should come clean and work on her marriage if he is willing or be alone until she can figure out her crap cause this stuff is never okay, and the fault lies in something within her. If she doesn't do some work, she's going to end up here over and over.
Quoting expectnanother:i don't understand why you said you completely disagree because i said basically what you said in not as manymany words but i do completely agree with how you put this
Quoting SareyF:
I completely disagree. Staying in love is a choice. Keeping heart and heat in the marriage is a choice. You must actively put into it to get out what you need. New relationships seem great because they are new. That means excitement and butterflies and attention at all times. That luster wears off and then you're looking for the next. OR you work on your marriage and it is amazing.
Quoting expectnanother:if you are I n a relationship and find yourself messing around with someone e else and in the midst of it all can't figure out which one or who to choose.....choose the second person because I f you loved the first one you wouldn't have found another
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