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Sex

Posted by Anonymous

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Hello i have crazy question me my husband been merry for 10 year. a few days ago he ask why not try something different i said what if he can have sex in my butt i said i don't think that's OK to do i don't think that healthy to do that i never have did that before I'm 41 and had not did it that before. can anyone tell if OK to do or not

Posted by Anonymous on Jan. 6, 2013 at 2:12 AM

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by Anonymous on Jan. 6, 2013 at 2:40 AM

I read on line that its not unhealthy but you could tear and if you do bacteria can get in there with could give you an infection.

Shygirl951

Member on Jan. 6, 2013 at 4:47 AM

Yea there is the chance if bacteria causing infection that is why if you chose to do so you must becareful. Don't go from your but to vagina, use a condom, and you will need a lot of lube and to go slow so you won't tear.

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PartyGalAnne

Gold Member on Jan. 6, 2013 at 11:42 PM

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If you can't type it, you probably shouldn't do it.

PartyGalAnne

Gold Member on Jan. 6, 2013 at 11:48 PM

Seriously though, Type "CLR" in the group search and you'll learn all you need to know!

MomRocs1102

Bronze Member on Jan. 7, 2013 at 12:11 AM

There is nothing wrong with anal sex, use lube and be gentle.

by Anonymous on Jan. 7, 2013 at 9:33 AM

I personally love it just take it easy when you try it. I had to be on top when we first started that way I was in control with the speed and if it hurt I could just jump off. Now its just so much fun we do it at least once a week

by Anonymous - Original Poster on Jan. 13, 2013 at 12:58 AM

If you can't say nothing nice about someone you should not type it.

Quoting PartyGalAnne:

If you can't type it, you probably shouldn't do it.

PartyGalAnne

Gold Member on Jan. 13, 2013 at 1:04 AM

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I didn't say anything about you personally. If you cannot educate yourself sufficiently before you take part in a potentially risky sexual act, then you probably should not engage in said act.

I mean, you obviously have internet access. Why didn't you look for a reputable sexual health source and find information there?

Quoting Anonymous:

If you can't say ~~nothing~~ anything nice about someone (comma) you should not type it.

Quoting PartyGalAnne:

If you can't type it, you probably shouldn't do it.