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I NEED ADVICE !!Question about boyfriend watching Porn ..

Would you be upset if u see alot of porn in your s/o recent history on his laptop.... 


i came across it and i feel very upset about it 


How would you address him in the situation ?? 

or is it not a big deal

by on Jan. 18, 2013 at 5:25 PM
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Megzboys
by on Feb. 7, 2013 at 12:52 AM



Quoting Stephenie2810:

my man was doing the same thing it up set me very bad so is what i did was tell him how would you like it if i just looked at men and played with my self and pretended like i was f**cking another man like he did when he looked at girls on porn when i am right here and got of when you are home i told him in a way it is like cheating cuz in his head he was f**cking other girls so i told him how would he like it if i did it and did not have sex with him and pertended i was haveing sex with a nother man. and for some people it is not a big dill but when you are not geting any cuz thay rather look at that crap well there is somthing wrong and if some guys watch it it gets bad thay get to were thay watch it all the time my man was doing it every day almost all day even at work on the phone then he would tell me he was not waching it and he was that made me fill like i was not good enof for him and he as stoped watching it that i know of but some times i thank he is still waching it cuz every know and agen cuz the history on the phone is erased that up sets me cuz   why eras it if you did not look up something . and what i dont get is why do thay look at that when thay have us wrigh there is it us or them are thay geting tyerd of us or sex with us but how can there hand and nasty looos pussy tern them on i dont get it

  If he is choosing porn over you then that IS a problem and needs to be dealt with.   That can easily become an addiction and is not healthy for a relationship. 


I love my boys

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babiigyalraya93
by on Feb. 8, 2013 at 4:57 PM


lol i deff dont believe him ,but i dnt understand why he lies about that, i even tell him every guy does it and he just like well not me 

Quoting finlyhappy65:

blahahahahahah, I hope you don't believe that one!  I have no problem with porn but then my man doesn't hide it, why would he?

Quoting babiigyalraya93:

He claims he doesnt maturbate


Quoting Fistandantalus:


Quoting babiigyalraya93:


but what if he is secretive about it,


Quoting Fistandantalus:

Not a big deal for me.




That's his private business.

Look, guys masturbate.  They get used to keeping their Porn  World to themselves, particularly when there's a nervous woman in the picture.  Unless he's turning you down in favor of porn, you have no reason to worry.





LilyFlair
by on Feb. 8, 2013 at 4:58 PM

nope! cause I get the good stuff. he might get off now and then on his own but then he lasts a long time for me.

Mari113
by on Feb. 8, 2013 at 5:43 PM
Quoting Qkala:



Wow you are awesome!!! I am going to try to make him his own personal videos of me ;) that's the answer if it bothers you that he watches porn well then do one of yourself and he will be masturbating to you!!!
Qkala
by on Feb. 9, 2013 at 11:59 AM

 Thanks!:) It's really easy. Just wach some real porn to see what they want. One of the easiest was to give him the camera when I gave him a nice blow job. Make sure the light is bright and that you look into the camera. Say things that might sound silly to you but he will love weeks later when he waching them. Say "oh baby your cock feels so good in my mouth" or something like that. Make sure you look directly into the camera. When making a video for him when you are alone you must remeber to have very bright lights on the action. My husband had simple tast and his favorite was just a close up of my pussy while I rubber my clit and spread it open really wide again and again for him while I said things like "this is YOUR pussy baby. You own it" and "I can't wait to feel your cock inside my cunt right here (while spreading lips far apart and pointing to the vaginal opening)". Yes i felt silly saying things like that but he LOVED it. Only need about 10 min of video I found. If that isn't long enough he can play it again. In all I made about 100 videos for him. I don't like the ones I made before I had babies cause it reminds me of how nice my body was when I was a teen ager and in my 20's, but he never minded my less than perfect body in the video, the main thing is wide open gaping pussy, as least for my man. He also liked strip tease videos.

    I say go for it and have fun!

Kala


Quoting Mari113:


Wow you are awesome!!! I am going to try to make him his own personal videos of me ;) that's the answer if it bothers you that he watches porn well then do one of yourself and he will be masturbating to you!!!


 

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