selfish 3some.. would you do it?

[Anonymous]

So there's this guy I know that I have flirted off and on with for a few years now but he is married so we never messed around. I was at a party at his house and his wife asked me to join them for a 3 some sometime. He isn't crazy.about the idea bc he says he wants to leave her and date me but who knows when that's gonna happen and this could be a good oppurtunity to get him naked. I'm bi so the part with her would be whatever. Would you agree to it? Don't judge me.. this guy is hot and his wife is a total bitch when she's not drinking. Sooooo tempting. Lol

[Fistandantalus]

Nope.

But I like things uncomplicated.

[mybaby77]

it sounds like your more into the guy, and he's already having problems with his wife so you two might just focus on yourselves and leave the wife out....  too many problems,   I would normally say if everybody is ok then go ahead but it sounds like there's too much shit going on....

[Espinosa]

Oh hun just walk away on this one....It sounds like a good chance but there is so many problems in that marriage its better for you not to be involved..If the man ever decides to leave his wife and goes with you well that is his decision only..Good Luck

[mom2priceboys]

bad idea in general but even worse as you are not doing it for sexual enjoyment but rather revenge against the wife - it will not turn out well!!

[SareyF]

Such a bad idea. Seriously, you don't know the inner workings of their marriage. You don't know if he's telling you this stuff just so he can string you along. Your best bet is to remain innocent in this and if he ends his marriage by his choice, then you can pursue things with him. A threesome under these circumstances would be bad for all involved.

[Anonymous - Original Poster]

I'm not doing it for revenge.. I don't personally have anything against his wife.. she's nice to me.. it would be for sexual enjoyment but it is him that I actually want.. not her..

Quoting mom2priceboys:

bad idea in general but even worse as you are not doing it for sexual enjoyment but rather revenge against the wife - it will not turn out well!!

[nsparky1964]

So this guy wants to leave his wife for you, but she's suggested a 3sum?....and you're wanting to see a MARRIED man naked? Yeah that doesn't have red flags all over it

[Anonymous]

It is also possible she knows he is lusting and is so insecure and desperate she's suggested a 3some as a last ditch resort to keeping him.  What guy wouldn't stay with a woman who allowed that?

And if he is the kind of guy who can make his wife so upset she'll ask for a 3some...he really isn't the kind of guy you want to be involved with.  And she isn't the kind of girl you want to be in bed with.

Is this their first 3some?

Quoting nsparky1964:

So this guy wants to leave his wife for you, but she's suggested a 3sum?....and you're wanting to see a MARRIED man naked? Yeah that doesn't have red flags all over it

[PartyGalAnne]

Wouldn't it speak more for his feelings for you if he left his wife and THEN began a relationship with you?

[Anonymous]

I'd do it, just make sure she has been drinking so she isn't bitchy.