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Anonymous
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I don't like sex. It hurts.
It has become a chore. I'm never aroused anymore.
Sex became painful after the birth of my 2nd child. I've seen a Dr. They can't find any reason I should be in so much pain during sex. I also yell and cry during a pelvic exam. Everything in that area just hurts.

I used to love sex. Now my husband is lucky if I can hold back tears long enough to let him cum.
I feel like less of a woman. I've become pretty depressed.
Posted by Anonymous on Jan. 29, 2013 at 4:36 PM
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Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Jan. 29, 2013 at 4:36 PM
I wouldn't blame him if he cheated on me at this point.
TheLadyAmalthea
by Silver Member on Jan. 29, 2013 at 4:38 PM
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Find a new doctor. That isn't right. And if the second doctor can't find a physical reason, it may be psychological. You could look into finding a sex therapist to help you. 

Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Jan. 29, 2013 at 4:47 PM
I've seen 3 so far.
:(


Quoting TheLadyAmalthea:

Find a new doctor. That isn't right. And if the second doctor can't find a physical reason, it may be psychological. You could look into finding a sex therapist to help you. 


Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Jan. 29, 2013 at 4:50 PM
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roxanna79
by on Jan. 29, 2013 at 4:52 PM
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Do you have a lot of stress or something bothering you that you have not dealt with? Something that you are not happy with the way it is?

Men carry stress in their shoulders, but women carry it in their pelvic area. If its nothing physical, sit down amd do some soul searching and try to figure it ouy. There may be something that you are missing.
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Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Jan. 29, 2013 at 4:54 PM
I'm not really stressed.
Just normal daily stuff.
The pain isn't really vague like I'd think psychological pain would be. Its specific. In the area where I tore during childbirth, it burns like fire and feels like it is rippling when he starts. Then it throbs and burns all during sex.


Quoting roxanna79:

Do you have a lot of stress or something bothering you that you have not dealt with? Something that you are not happy with the way it is?



Men carry stress in their shoulders, but women carry it in their pelvic area. If its nothing physical, sit down amd do some soul searching and try to figure it ouy. There may be something that you are missing.

HyrulianHeroine
by on Jan. 29, 2013 at 5:12 PM

time for a specialist!! that's actually a medical condition that is very serious in women.

get a second opinion.

Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Jan. 29, 2013 at 5:15 PM
I've seen 3 doctors.

My insurance doesn't cover a sex therapist and the closest one is in a city 8 hours away.
You have heard of a condition that causes this? Do you remember the name?


Quoting HyrulianHeroine:

time for a specialist!! that's actually a medical condition that is very serious in women.

get a second opinion.


Wicked.Jester
by on Jan. 29, 2013 at 5:20 PM

See a psychiatrist.  It could be mental and not physical.  You don't need a sex therapist at all.

Quoting Anonymous:

I've seen 3 doctors.

My insurance doesn't cover a sex therapist and the closest one is in a city 8 hours away.
You have heard of a condition that causes this? Do you remember the name?


Quoting HyrulianHeroine:

time for a specialist!! that's actually a medical condition that is very serious in women.

get a second opinion.



Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Jan. 29, 2013 at 5:21 PM
The pain is real and tangible.
I'm not making it up in my head.


Quoting Wicked.Jester:

See a psychiatrist.  It could be mental and not physical.  You don't need a sex therapist at all.

Quoting Anonymous:

I've seen 3 doctors.



My insurance doesn't cover a sex therapist and the closest one is in a city 8 hours away.

You have heard of a condition that causes this? Do you remember the name?





Quoting HyrulianHeroine:

time for a specialist!! that's actually a medical condition that is very serious in women.

get a second opinion.





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