Spiccing up your sex life? What's your fav???
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Also what things have you tried to spice up your sex life.?? I've tried talking dirty, bringing in vibrators asking if there's anything he would love to do, even bought new undies that he suggested he found sexy but that still leaves us doing the same exact things always.. I'm wanting secrets or new ways that worked for you.
Anal does hurt at first, but I found going in from behind in the vagina first helps relax me and then do anal because you are naturally lubed and relaxed.
For spicing it up, we set aside a night (that we looked forward too) and went shopping together for something to do. It kinda helped. I just had my mind cleared and did something new I'd never done before. That kinda helped. However, we ended up back in bed doing the normal missionary sex in the end.
So I wouldn't mind seeing some new ideas too.
And yes I said I wanted to try having him write down what he wants done to him but handcuffs sound good
Quoting JessO919:I've found for anal that if I have a couple drinks (not get drunk necessarily) it will help me relax enough so that anal does not hurt.
As for spicing it up, Hubby will sometimes suprise me in the shower which I love. You could also try roleplaying, handcuffs, blindfolds, etc.
Quoting Anonymous:Anal does hurt at first, but I found going in from behind in the vagina first helps relax me and then do anal because you are naturally lubed and relaxed.
For spicing it up, we set aside a night (that we looked forward too) and went shopping together for something to do. It kinda helped. I just had my mind cleared and did something new I'd never done before. That kinda helped. However, we ended up back in bed doing the normal missionary sex in the end.
So I wouldn't mind seeing some new ideas too.
Anal takes time to get use to . I suggest buying a small anal toy or even your man using his fingers. That's what we did and to be time relaxed first my hubby uses his fingers while he's down there and then vaginal before anal. We still use anal lube tho makes it easier .
Spicing it up I use outfits ! Just little sexy things I like and feel sexy in nothing special (Vicoria Secrets) . We always talk/text about things we want or like also. Texting makes its easier for us since we are kind of shy face to face but then e texting makes it easier when we are face to face.
Quoting Anonymous:
Have you tried just rubbing the head of a vibrator on you butt hole? It will relax it, you can also. Keep holding it there while SO slowly tries to put his lubed dick in, I have my husband wiggle and rub his dick there until it starts to go in on its own
I just suggested that we write down something that we want done. So hopefully it works next time
Quoting mikemantha:Anal takes time to get use to . I suggest buying a small anal toy or even your man using his fingers. That's what we did and to be time relaxed first my hubby uses his fingers while he's down there and then vaginal before anal. We still use anal lube tho makes it easier .
Spicing it up I use outfits ! Just little sexy things I like and feel sexy in nothing special (Vicoria Secrets) . We always talk/text about things we want or like also. Texting makes its easier for us since we are kind of shy face to face but then e texting makes it easier when we are face to face.
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