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anyone else never have an orgasm before?

Posted by on Jan. 30, 2013 at 5:53 PM
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My poor bestie, has 2 kids and a hubby of 3 years. She just told me she has provably only had an orgasm once in her life. She said she cant even get herself off......super sad. Any helpful tips, or suggestions or something...
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by Anonymous on Jan. 30, 2013 at 7:45 PM
Maybe she needs to imagine freaky stuff at the moment where she thinks she will orgasm. Maybe she should talk to her hubby about foreplay or sensual touch to get her excited ... Sometimes ur mind is elsewhere but hey, gotta do what u gotta do .....
Anonymous
by Anonymous on Jan. 30, 2013 at 7:45 PM
Maybe she needs to imagine freaky stuff at the moment where she thinks she will orgasm. Maybe she should talk to her hubby about foreplay or sensual touch to get her excited ... Sometimes ur mind is elsewhere but hey, gotta do what u gotta do .....
Anonymous
by Anonymous on Jan. 30, 2013 at 7:46 PM

Not sure if I had 1 lol I'm 26 what does it feel like

beingme75
by Member on Jan. 30, 2013 at 7:47 PM
Omg!! I feel so sowwy for her!!
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Anonymous
by Anonymous on Feb. 1, 2013 at 12:03 PM
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I never orgasm during sex or even during oral.  I can get off myself with a vibrator.  Tell your friend to get a good vibrator and run it over her clit.  Get a dildo for her pussy and do both at the same time.  She's got to relax and get familiar with her body as to what feels good to her.

Anonymous
by Anonymous on Feb. 2, 2013 at 11:41 AM

An orgasm feels incredible.  You would know if you had one. 

Anonymous
by Anonymous on Feb. 2, 2013 at 11:48 AM
I am 25 and i only had one but i was embarrased when i had it because i peed on myself lol
lil_momma_vdv
by Member on Feb. 2, 2013 at 10:59 PM
Lol are u sure it was pee, i swear i pee every time too but ita Just love sauce
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mommaslilmen
by Member on Feb. 2, 2013 at 11:04 PM

Tell her to relax, clear her mind of all thoughts, and get herself actually in the mood and not rush things.

Oliviasmom72
by Member on Feb. 2, 2013 at 11:54 PM
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Only one guy I have ever slept with has been able to give me consistent orgasms and I only get them during oral and you have to hit the spot just right. I can get one with a vibrator easy. You friend needs to get an adult toy and find out what makes her have one. Then she can teach her husband how to make her.
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