I hate to say it but my sex life is so boring. It was fun before we had dd. but during the pregnancy i had gotten so big we could one have sex while laying on our sides as it just hurt any other way. Now dd is 18 months old and that is one of the only ways he will have sex now (the other is when I'm on top).
I hate it, yet he keeps doing it over and over. WTF. I've tried talking to him about it and he just says he just likes it like that. this is TMI but it's just... well.... lets say his is an ok size but .... dam he just isn't long enough for it to do any good that way unless i'mbasically bent over half way on the bed. Kinda like a sitting position but laying on our sides.
I don't know what it is all i can think is that it's all the extra weight i gained during the pregnancy. I like sex, love sex. when he is at work when they talk about it he gets them mad at him because he married a "nympho" and they supposedly only get it once a week or two (except one guy who is our age and has 12 kids).
I'm just tired of it cause most of the time I can't finish and he is done and passes out on me I'm like HELLO WHAT ABOUT ME!!!!! He is very selfish during sex and apparently thinks i have boobs and hooch and that is it. Hardly ever touches me anywhere else. I know he isn't with anyone else as he is very against adultery. He doesn't have a high sex drive, never has, we've joked that he needs to get a little blue pill.
I've tried getting him to do other things but he has no interest. I don't know what else to do any more. Any suggestions??