So I have noticed on several Cafe Mom discusion groups the word slut being thrown about. I am from New Zealand (though lived in USA for a number of years now). I have lived in Austrailia and been lucky enough to spend a lot of time in Great Brittian and South Africa. I have noticed that Americans use the word slut very differently than the rest of the english speaking world.
I have heard slut defined by American a few men as any woman who willingly has sex with a man not her husband.
In the rest of the english speaking world the number of men a woman has sex with is irrelevent. It's the motivation of the sex that makes her a slut. For example a woman can fuck a different man every day for a year, 365 men, and not be considered a slut. However if a virgin has sex with her sisters BF to get revenge on her sister she would be a slut. Or if she has sex with her boss in exchange for a promotion she would be considered a slut. However if the motivation for the sex was for love, lust, fun, pleasure, enjoyment then she could never be a slut no matter how many men she fucked.
So use your pussy to hurt others, or to gain an unfair advantage = slut
Use your pussy to have fun, express love, or help others = Not a slut.
I have also noticed the word "cunt" is used very differently in USA vs the rest of the english speaking world.