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Anonymous
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Me and my boyfriend have been together for 7 years and we had sex all the time in the beginning and now I'm lucky to get it once a month we have 2 kids to I don't know what his deal is he falls asleep on the couch all the time it makes me feel unloved. Please help me anyone.
Posted by Anonymous on Feb. 3, 2013 at 7:49 PM
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Anonymous
by Anonymous on Feb. 3, 2013 at 7:51 PM
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Try not having sex for six years and being in a relationship
Anonymous
by Anonymous - Original Poster on Feb. 3, 2013 at 8:02 PM
Wow that has to be hard how did you get throw it?


Quoting Anonymous:

Try not having sex for six years and being in a relationship

Anonymous
by Anonymous on Feb. 3, 2013 at 8:54 PM
An outside relationship

Quoting Anonymous:

Wow that has to be hard how did you get throw it?




Quoting Anonymous:

Try not having sex for six years and being in a relationship

Anonymous
by Anonymous on Feb. 3, 2013 at 9:01 PM
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thats horrible advice! try inviting him to the bedroom mama. like say _______ can i talk to you? and then close/lock the door behind you and push him onto the bed. start taking your clothes off & kissing him ect & see where things go!


Quoting Anonymous:

An outside relationship



Quoting Anonymous:

Wow that has to be hard how did you get throw it?






Quoting Anonymous:

Try not having sex for six years and being in a relationship


Anonymous
by Anonymous on Feb. 3, 2013 at 9:02 PM

After seven years, why is he just a boyfriend??  Maybe he has found another girlfriend that is satisfying his sexual needs elsewhere.

tanper29
by Member on Feb. 3, 2013 at 9:07 PM
How long has the no sex been going on. Its normal for every couple to fall into a rut. Do u both work shift work? Do u guys take time for yourselves or for each other?
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Anonymous
by Anonymous on Feb. 3, 2013 at 9:19 PM
How old are u?
How old is he?
Are u fat?
Ugly?
Boring?
How much does he work?
How often do u put yourself out there and get rejected?
Is he healthy?

There are a lot of unanswered questions in this post. It could be a number of reasons
kjbugsmom1517
by Member on Feb. 3, 2013 at 9:23 PM
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After 2 kids and 7 years its not uncommon to have less sex. Might be just time to spice things up a bit. Talk to him see what he says.
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RedSicilian411
by New Member on Feb. 3, 2013 at 9:54 PM

Do you want to have sex with him?  If so you need to be completely open with him about it.  If it's a fixable problem fix it, date, games, toys, role play, new lingerie... whatever it takes.  If it's not a fixable problem and you feel unloved, that's not fair to you, there's a bigger problem.  Good luck

Anonymous
by Anonymous - Original Poster on Feb. 3, 2013 at 9:55 PM
Thank you for your advice.


Quoting kjbugsmom1517:

After 2 kids and 7 years its not uncommon to have less sex. Might be just time to spice things up a bit. Talk to him see what he says.

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