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bf lost interest in sex not sure what to do

Posted by on Feb. 4, 2013 at 12:32 PM
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Ok about half way through my pregnancy I became very emotional n needy and I wanted sex all the time and I would cry everytime I got turned down which made sex less often than before and within the last month since I've been given the go and I'm on birth control I'm still getting turned down or its a let's get this over with sex there's no more kissing hugging oral I don't know what to do I just want to cry I'm hurt and lonely....he goes ice fishing a lot and he's on the phone a lot with his buddy or his cousin the ones he goes ice fishing with
He told me that from me asking for sex and crying cuz I didn't get it turned him off and its going to take time for him to want me again but its just frustrating....
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MrsVolle0904
by Member on Feb. 4, 2013 at 5:25 PM
I felt the exact same way. My husband wouldn't have sex with me the entire last month of my pregnancy..and I still technically have three weeks until I'm "allowed" to again.
Maybe yu should try not to make it as personal as yu are. I mean, trust me, I did the same: cried everytime I got turned down, but never in front of him. Maybe dress in something sexy and make him do what yu want and do what yu want to do to him. Don't let him have a say.
Works for my husband.
Hope I helped.
Message me if yu need a friend. :-)
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