how to aproach this....hmm should i just leave it alone
First let me start by saying that my sex life is not normal, far from it.
My SO has a new gf, whatever thats fine, HOWEVER thismorning we were playing a bit (verry welcome change from our post baby vanilla rut) and i noticed his anus is SIGNIFICANTLY looser than it used to be. I KNOW they play as well, however i thought her thing was mostly bondage and cupping and whatnot. Im kind of sad that he has taken all the fun of the anal training we were supposed to start once we could afford a new training set away from me.
I have no idea how to bring up that this bothers me. he gets mad at me whenever i bring up his sex life, saying that its none of my buisness, even though it is. but this truly upsets me, i feel like his gf took a verry special privelige away from me. and its not fair