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I can't seem to cum

Anonymous
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A couple years back I was dating D. We dated for a couple years but it never got serious, and never talk about the "next step". But over time you do get close to someone I guess. We had the most bomb sex ever. Every damn time, it just got better. I came every single time. There was never a lot of foreplay though and like I said, we weren't serious.

I met my now bf and left D for him. Best decision I ever made. My bf is- well I know he's the one. In bed- holy cow, he's awesome. He KNOWS how to eat a girl out. D never did that. My bf makes me completely happy and makes me feel beautiful and sexy.

I can't cum for shit with him. We introduced the bullet and the damn thing was about to die when I finally came.

Obviously the problem is with me but I don't know what it is or how to fix it.

I need help!!!!
Posted by Anonymous on Feb. 6, 2013 at 9:26 PM
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Anonymous
by Anonymous - Original Poster on Feb. 6, 2013 at 11:21 PM
Bump!
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by Anonymous on Feb. 6, 2013 at 11:26 PM
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I can only orgasm with clitoral stimulation and it takes forever! Always has....

midjet117
by Bronze Member on Feb. 6, 2013 at 11:32 PM
I'm sorry. I cannot be of help to you. My husband puts it in and i usually cum quite quickly. He's so thick and hitting my g spot is pretty easy to do.
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by Anonymous - Original Poster on Feb. 6, 2013 at 11:35 PM
:( I wonder if my body just changed? I thought my peak years was my 30's :(

Quoting Anonymous:

I can only orgasm with clitoral stimulation and it takes forever! Always has....

Anonymous
by Anonymous - Original Poster on Feb. 7, 2013 at 12:06 AM
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Quoting midjet117:

I'm sorry. I cannot be of help to you. My husband puts it in and i usually cum quite quickly. He's so thick and hitting my g spot is pretty easy to do.
LuvLiddy
by New Member on Feb. 7, 2013 at 7:36 AM
I have the same problem. The only thing good with my ex was the sex. Although it required clitorial stimulation, I would orgasm quickly. I went without sex for over a year and was excited when I met my so. Now, it's like things have gotten rusty and malfunctioned. I can orgasm but it takes much, much longer and it's never as intense. New guy has yet to cause climax with oral. I know it's not him. I think my body got out of whack or something????
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by Anonymous - Original Poster on Feb. 7, 2013 at 9:25 AM
Well that sucks.

Quoting LuvLiddy:

I have the same problem. The only thing good with my ex was the sex. Although it required clitorial stimulation, I would orgasm quickly. I went without sex for over a year and was excited when I met my so. Now, it's like things have gotten rusty and malfunctioned. I can orgasm but it takes much, much longer and it's never as intense. New guy has yet to cause climax with oral. I know it's not him. I think my body got out of whack or something????
Anonymous
by Anonymous on Feb. 7, 2013 at 9:42 AM
I dont know what to tell you. I cant orgasm with my hubby easily. It takes clitoral stimulation and a lot of time. Usually its a quickie so I dont get mine unless I masterbate. My ex was bigger, so he hit my gspot so easily. Sex was the only thing I miss with him.
Anonymous
by Anonymous - Original Poster on Feb. 7, 2013 at 12:04 PM
Huh. Interesting!

My bf usually is very giving in bed and takes his time. He doesn't last as much as my ex either though but they're the same size. I know those aren't the factors though.

I wonder if my ex just hit the g-spot every time. My bf tries, he really does. Maybe it puts pressure on me and I fail? I don't know.

Quoting Anonymous:

I dont know what to tell you. I cant orgasm with my hubby easily. It takes clitoral stimulation and a lot of time. Usually its a quickie so I dont get mine unless I masterbate. My ex was bigger, so he hit my gspot so easily. Sex was the only thing I miss with him.
Anonymous
by Anonymous on Feb. 7, 2013 at 4:47 PM

I've only had 2 sex partners. The first one I was with for 3 years and came easily every time. I got with my now husband and couldn't cum anymore. I finally realized what positions I needed to do beforehand, toys as needed and lots of foreplay beforehand. It's been 6 years now and I cum very easily now.

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