A question for ur s/o and u?

[Anonymous]

My dh says that if u take 2 women, 1 thin and at least average looks and 1 that is fairly heavy and/or below average in attractiveness that most men will think the heavier and/or less attractive girl is kinkier or freakier..

What do u think?
What does ur man think?

He says it's because a lot of times the girl is trying to compensate and the thin attractive girl doesnt think she has to do much.

(i am thin and average lookong and a freak in the sheets so idk where he comes up with this)

[HyrulianHeroine]

i don't know what i think lol, but dh says he doesn't believe that. He says the unattractiveness will push his eyes away in the first place, weight doesn't matter, but she has to keep her self up. That that stuff doesn't come to his mind firstly it's later down the road after he judges how she is as a person and whether she is dating material or not. (basically i think he means it's bullshit lol)

lol same here, my opinion on it i guess would be that that's bullshit. I'm average looking with an athletic body build and i am a women in the streets, but his slut in the bed :)

[bchic24]

Hubby says that's just a stereotype. lol

[Anonymous]

A lot of guys say that. Not always true

[Anonymous]

I would say that I'm average looking and I have been super skinny and also super heavy neither weight played a factor in how I acted in bed. I have always been a freak in bed no matter what my size.

[mommyspalace]

Mine agreed

[Matriarch87]

I don't think kinkier or freakier is a good way of putting it...maybe they just try harder in general is a better way to put it. And I don't know.

[nsparky1964]

This

Quoting Anonymous:

I would say that I'm average looking and I have been super skinny and also super heavy neither weight played a factor in how I acted in bed. I have always been a freak in bed no matter what my size.

[nsparky1964]

This

Quoting Anonymous:

I would say that I'm average looking and I have been super skinny and also super heavy neither weight played a factor in how I acted in bed. I have always been a freak in bed no matter what my size.

[elites2012]

(hubbie) no they are not trying to compensate for anything.  they just feel more free with experimenting.  the thin ones think they can get by just one looks and trying to compete with women in porn.  the thicker ones just want to have sex and be happy.  Last alot of men see skinny women as porn toys cause thats all you see in porn.  

[kitty8199]

I did have an ex say big girls do more bc they feel they have less options. He was an asshole