Intimacy issues...

[Anonymous]

Okay Ladies.. I need some advice..

here lately, I haven't felt connected to my DH in bed...I just haven't been in the mood to do anything... and I feel awful about it. I just can't get into it. Idk whats wrong with me.. even kissing him during foreplay isn't the same.Doesn't give me the same feeling it used too and its really starting to take a toll on me.. I dont wanna feel like I'm losing my Intimate relationship with him. We've been through some rough shit and I thought we'd be able to get back to the way things were.. but apparently not... I love him to death .. I'm craving an intimate connection :( idk why I can't with him. I want too more than anything..

any of you ladies ever experiance this?

[Fistandantalus]

Could be you have a vitamin and mineral deficiency.  

[Anonymous - Original Poster]

could that be a problem ? I have a doctors appointment on the 22nd.. I can talk to her about that. I've. Always had problems with being anemic

Quoting Fistandantalus:

Could be you have a vitamin and mineral deficiency.  

[Fistandantalus]

Quoting Anonymous:

could that be a problem ? I have a doctors appointment on the 22nd.. I can talk to her about that. I've. Always had problems with being anemic

Quoting Fistandantalus:

Could be you have a vitamin and mineral deficiency.  

More than 70% of cases of low libido in women of childbearing age can be traced to vitamin and mineral deficiencies.

[Anonymous]

yes i sure have like idk do u guys do it alot :/ thats the problem with me and my man he wants it so much to where i dont be in the mood no more he gets annoying about sex to were i dont like it but yes i feel the same way at times

[Anonymous]

[Anonymous - Original Poster]

we don't do it A LOT. We have sex less frequently then when we just fool around. I'm content with how freqently we have sex. I just can't connect or get in the mood like I used too. I'd usually be the one initiating sex but lately its been him because I just haven't wanted too or been in the mood. And it sucks!

Quoting Anonymous:

yes i sure have like idk do u guys do it alot :/ thats the problem with me and my man he wants it so much to where i dont be in the mood no more he gets annoying about sex to were i dont like it but yes i feel the same way at times

[Anonymous]

Oh ok well mabe yall should just try sumthin new

[hartmancrew05]

are you taking any medications?  you would be surprised with how many daily medications affect your libido.  (anything from depression/bipolar, hormonal conditions, communication with your partner, alcohol, sleeping patterns, kids, etc can affect your libido)  talk with your doctor and i wish you much luch!!!

[PartyGalAnne]

I'm guessing you're pissed at him about something.

[nsparky1964]

Exaxtly, howevee finding a doctor that believes and practices all forms of alt med is an issue im sure..

Quoting Fistandantalus:

Quoting Anonymous:

could that be a problem ? I have a doctors appointment on the 22nd.. I can talk to her about that. I've. Always had problems with being anemic

Quoting Fistandantalus:

Could be you have a vitamin and mineral deficiency.  

More than 70% of cases of low libido in women of childbearing age can be traced to vitamin and mineral deficiencies.