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Is DH/SO a love maker or a f***er???

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I am a romantic person, always have been, and my SO was the same way up until about a year ago. Now all he wants to do is f*** and roll over and sleep. No cuddling, no I love yous. Ill get a thx -__- I asked him why he isn't romantic or make love to me anymore, he says that stage of his life is gone :( we've been together almost 6 years and have a son together. I don't understand what has changed and why :( I feel like im not loved, just a girl for him to f***. Is anyone else's DH/SO like this?
Posted by Anonymous on Feb. 18, 2013 at 1:26 PM
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Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Feb. 22, 2013 at 2:36 PM
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Thanks and good luck with you guys!


Quoting Kelsey89:

We're working on our relationship again so we shall see what happens. I hope everything works out for you though :)

Quoting Anonymous:

Sorry that happened. Things changed for him after our son was born. Idk if its his way of thinking now that he's a dad or if its me, even though he says its not.





Quoting Kelsey89:

My ex and I used to make love before our daughter was born. We only had sex once after she was born before we broke up it was more fucking. I think it was partly my fault because I was dealing with a lot and never want to have sex. I think it felt that and made it as quick as possible.





mommyto3bees
by on Feb. 22, 2013 at 2:44 PM

i wish he was a fucker lol hard fast and awesome 

but noo its just a long drug out process lol

MichaelsMom0711
by on Feb. 22, 2013 at 3:32 PM

 lol, i know! usually men are the ones that dont really wana hear i love u during but Im like that., i guess i rather my sex life be more of a porno than a romance novel, i dont know! lol


Quoting Anonymous:

That does sound a lil weird, I am the totally opposite.but everyone is different :)


Quoting MichaelsMom0711:

he pretty much just is a f**ker! but so I am so it doesnt matter, and i know it sounds weird but he will say i love u once in a while during sex and i dont really say it back and its a turn off kind of, i rather hear dirty talk than i love u!



 

ochoa.mama
by Member on Feb. 25, 2013 at 6:10 AM
Men are very selfish beings, but you have needs to. He needs to know this. Talk to him, how can GE expect this to continue
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Dee0886
by on Feb. 25, 2013 at 8:26 AM
Sometimes it's making love and sometimes we just get down and we're in the mood to fuck. DH kisses me and tells me he loves me a majority of the time but sometimes not but I don't take it personally.
If he ever told me that part of his life is over (whatever that means) it would be unacceptable. I think a woman needs a little tender love making/cuddling/I love yous at least occasionally in her life.
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Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Mar. 5, 2013 at 3:58 PM
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