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In the Bedroom

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Can't finish in bed

Posted by Anonymous

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Me and my boyfriend have been dating for almost 2 years now and i have yet to finish when we have sex. It's not that I don't enjoy it, because I do. But I can finish just fine when i'm masturbating and he helps me. I don't understand... I need some advice from women because i want to enjoy my sex life and I know he would love to make me have an orgasm. Please, if you have any advice, let me know.

Sincerely,

Sexually frustrated

P.S: I'm not sure if my mind gets too clustered or maybe i just got so used to using a vibrator, but i need help to save this relationship!

Posted by Anonymous on Feb. 18, 2013 at 8:48 PM

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by Anonymous - Original Poster on Feb. 18, 2013 at 9:24 PM

BUMP!

midjet117

Bronze Member on Feb. 18, 2013 at 9:27 PM

maybe hes just not hitting the right spot.

by Anonymous - Original Poster on Feb. 18, 2013 at 9:31 PM

i know that he's hitting the right spot though because i can feel it. He usually doesn't last very long which sucks but when he does last awhile, i still can't seem to finish

by Anonymous on Feb. 18, 2013 at 10:41 PM

Im in the same boat sweety but I havent gotten off in 2 years and a vibrater does not work for me. Have you tried being on top or if your on bottom use your vibrater on your clit. My dh does not last long either 10 min sex sucks all the time.

by Anonymous - Original Poster on Feb. 19, 2013 at 1:29 PM

I've tried being on top but i have a hard time with it. as for the vibrator during sex, i've tried that too... But i suppose maybe if he lasted longer, it would help... any ideas on that?

by Anonymous - Original Poster on Feb. 19, 2013 at 2:44 PM

BUMP!

by Anonymous on Feb. 19, 2013 at 5:36 PM

I know that does sound frustrating

by Anonymous on Feb. 19, 2013 at 5:40 PM

How often do you mastubate? I have trouble getting off in the evening if I've gotten off earlier. I know, women aren't supposed to work that way, but it does for me.

by Anonymous on Feb. 19, 2013 at 6:10 PM

i have the same problum some times. dh will go before me and im left with out going.

by Anonymous - Original Poster on Feb. 19, 2013 at 6:40 PM

Quoting Anonymous:

How often do you mastubate? I have trouble getting off in the evening if I've gotten off earlier. I know, women aren't supposed to work that way, but it does for me.