Me and my boyfriend have been dating for almost 2 years now and i have yet to finish when we have sex. It's not that I don't enjoy it, because I do. But I can finish just fine when i'm masturbating and he helps me. I don't understand... I need some advice from women because i want to enjoy my sex life and I know he would love to make me have an orgasm. Please, if you have any advice, let me know.
Sincerely,
Sexually frustrated
P.S: I'm not sure if my mind gets too clustered or maybe i just got so used to using a vibrator, but i need help to save this relationship!
No more vibrator for a while. Christmas and your birthday only.
You need to get used to the feel of skin on skin. Get on top, rub your clit on him. If all you're thinking is "I hope I come I hope I come" you will never come. You've got to clear your head and focus on only pleasure.
It may take time and lots of practice, but you will get there!
Quoting PartyGalAnne:
No more vibrator for a while. Christmas and your birthday only.
You need to get used to the feel of skin on skin. Get on top, rub your clit on him. If all you're thinking is "I hope I come I hope I come" you will never come. You've got to clear your head and focus on only pleasure.
It may take time and lots of practice, but you will get there!
That's the biggest trouble i have; clearing my head. It is very very difficult for me and i think that's what the problem is but i can't seem to do it
spicing things up in bed?