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Between the sheets....

Anonymous
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  1. Alright ladies, my SO and I have a differing opinion on how often people in "normal" relationships have sex. He thinks that once a week is more than adequate, while I feel that it is not. How often do you and your partners have sex on average?
Posted by Anonymous on Feb. 21, 2013 at 1:55 AM
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hiswifey01
by Member on Feb. 21, 2013 at 7:11 PM

Every day to every other day.

Anonymous
by Anonymous on Feb. 21, 2013 at 7:14 PM
Everyday sometimes twice :)
dawnnamarie
by Member on Feb. 21, 2013 at 7:38 PM
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Wow momma. Props to you for even making time to sleep, let alone have sex!! :)

Quoting Momof5kids84:

This exactly. It just depends on how life goes. We have 5 kids and one on the way. We also just got a mastiff puppy. DH works full time, and is enrolled in graduate school full time. Did I mention that our oldest is only 8? Lol



Quoting dawnnamarie:

1-3xs a week
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Anonymous
by Anonymous on Feb. 21, 2013 at 9:15 PM

I think my partner would die if I brought up only once a week with him... like literally die lmao. He's always turned on, some days he's possessed and it's like "get off me" *mad face* lol.

CjEmmemommy
by Member on Feb. 21, 2013 at 9:18 PM

At least 5 times a week. Hubby would never ever be okay with 1 once a week.

 I think it depends on the couple and a compromise is needed most of the time. For us he wants it 10 times a week I would be good wi once so we do t at least 5..

 Maybe for you 3 times would be good.

PartyGalAnne
by Gold Member on Feb. 21, 2013 at 10:51 PM

The "average" American couple does it 2-3 tmes a week.

So some are doing it multiple times a day, some are only doing it once a month.

Do what is comfortable for YOU.

Anonymous
by Anonymous on Feb. 21, 2013 at 10:52 PM
3-5 times a week on average and we have been married 5 yrs and together 7. Neither of us would be okay with just once a week.
DevanF
by New Member on Feb. 21, 2013 at 10:54 PM
We have sex probably 2-3 times a week on average.
TheLadyAmalthea
by Bronze Member on Feb. 22, 2013 at 1:53 AM

Depends on each couple. My husband and I average twice a week. Sometimes more, sometimes less. It depends on what is going on in our lives. Work can get stressful, kids get sick... I don't make a big deal out of it when sex becomes too spaced out. In our marriage, it is usually just a situational phase. Oh, and we've been married for 6 years and together for 10. Having sex for 10 of those years... 

Anonymous
by Anonymous on Feb. 22, 2013 at 7:07 AM
Depends on his work schedule but if its not sex it's something else whether a bj or him going down on me. But usually sex 4-5 times a week and the other days were too tired but something happens lol.
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