HELP PLEASE!!!

[Ifunanya]

Ok..so i'm 18 and I just got married.My hubby and me already had 2 kids before we got married... I just found out i'm pregnant again and i'm really scared to tell him cos I don't think he wants more kids.He travelled for a few weeks and he just got back yesterday.i've been able to hide the bump since he got back but i'm worried that he'll notice it when we have sex....is there any way I can keep him from noticing it?

[tanper29]

U need to tell him. Ur not going to be able to hide it forever. How far along are u? How old r the 2 lo?

[Ifunanya]

2 years and 11 months..i'm 4 months pregnant..i'm too scared to tell him.

[HyrulianHeroine]

it's called don't. 

Tell him that your pregnant, what are you going to do around the time your bump start showing, blame it on weight??

hell be pissed that you hid it from him, he'll see it almost as lying. I'm sure hell stick around if he really loves you, disappointed yes, it happens. Me and DH had an unexpected one recently and yes we were disappointed that we weren't more careful, but he is more than excited to have his baby boy on the way.

[Ifunanya]

Did u notice the age difference (or lack of) between my children? Pissed is an understatement. I was supposed to be taking pills. I can't even look at him right now.

[Ifunanya]

Quoting HyrulianHeroine:

it's called don't. 

Tell him that your pregnant, what are you going to do around the time your bump start showing, blame it on weight??

hell be pissed that you hid it from him, he'll see it almost as lying. I'm sure hell stick around if he really loves you, disappointed yes, it happens. Me and DH had an unexpected one recently and yes we were disappointed that we weren't more careful, but he is more than excited to have his baby boy on the way.

[Anonymous]

Hiding the pregnancy is gonna make it worse. Just be honest and tell him. Nothing wrong I mean your having sex duh it could and can happen.

[jojo_382]

hiding your pregnancy is going to make it worse just be honest with him by telling him I know its gonna be hard to tell but I'm sure if he loves you he would stick with you good luck

[Ifunanya]

I understand that..but he'll be very dissapointed cos I was suppose to be taking pills. I'm too scared. And he just got back. I don't want us to have a fight. I'm confused.

Quoting Anonymous:

Hiding the pregnancy is gonna make it worse. Just be honest and tell him. Nothing wrong I mean your having sex duh it could and can happen.

[Raindancerx]

In this situation hiding the truth is the same as lying to him. Tell him. If you know you are not going to abort then make sure you are strong and don't care about if he has negativity about it. The distance between your childrens ages do not matter. There are many mothers that have had kids closer together than you will be having them and they are all fine. You are going to have to "face the music" sometime so better to tell him sooner rather than later.

[Ifunanya]

I know what you mean. The problem is, I got pregnant with my daughter barely 4 months after my son was born. My husband did'nt find out till I was abt 5 months along and he was upset that I was'nt honest with him. He did'nt talk to me for a whole week. I can't bear that again. Now I'm 4 months along but I just realized I was pregnant last month cos I had been menstruating till then. So what can I possibly do now that won't cause a fight between us?..if I tell him now he won't believe that I did'nt know till last month and he'll think I lied.

Quoting Raindancerx:

In this situation hiding the truth is the same as lying to him. Tell him. If you know you are not going to abort then make sure you are strong and don't care about if he has negativity about it. The distance between your childrens ages do not matter. There are many mothers that have had kids closer together than you will be having them and they are all fine. You are going to have to "face the music" sometime so better to tell him sooner rather than later.