well of course you can always get a dildo or a vibrator. but usually clitoral stimulation works the best. totally hard to hit the OH DAMN YEAH spot by urself. iffen ur brave nuff go to a sex store, and ask questions. iffen u ain't, go online, order the adam n eve magazine. but really i gotta tellya, ur best sex toy is ur hubby/sig other. iffen ur not up to that yet n wanna explore on ur own first, then first get nekked n look in the mirror. don't say in ur mind wow gotta work out, say, wow i look so sezzy. talk sezzy to urself, tell urself i am the sezziest biatch i know. then start to touch. once u r feeling randy, u'll know where u wanna be touched. by ur profile pic, u gotta fella that likes to be close to u, involve him in this. explore ur body together. move his hand or um... whatever... to the place that u want. he won't feel like ur being critical, he'll feel like, oh wow, she's turning me into a sex GOD! it makes him feel POWERFUL to be in a position to learn about what you want, and give it to u......(ps: red hair is always a man turn-on i think.... u have gorgeous hair girlee!)



- 20Keller12
on Feb. 26, 2013 at 12:48 AM