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This thread is sort of for some Q&A and advice for spicing things up in the bedroom :)
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For the past few years? I have been nervous to come on to my husband. He's never directly shot me down, but he makes it clear he's not too interested in sex. When info REALLY try, he's not very responsive. Example: I went down on him a few weeks ago. Not something I often do, I never used to like it. Well, I LOVED it, and wanted to do it again ASAP. So I sent him dirty messages, dirty pictures, and finally flat out told him I wanted to, and what I wanted him to do to me. (This, I do pretty regularly) THREE weeks later, he was not "sooooo tired" and wanting to go right to bed when he got home. It has been another three weeks since he's done more than give me a quick kiss. We usually go (because he is too tired) 6-8 weeks without having sec, and by that time it lasts a few minutes at most. What can I do?!? I love sex. I love sex with him when he puts in the effort, but am also at a point where even when he does (which isn't often) I can't finish because... Well, I don't know why!
ANY advice is welcome.
In regards to post 2 have you talked about role play at all? One way to start that one is the nurse if he is feeling under the weather. It would be a very sexy suprise! Imo that is the safest starter and easy to be private with kids in the house. Other ideas are mini role play without costumes. Tell him he is your doctor and needs to fix you!
Quoting PR_Tracy:
The first thing is to sorry of gauge when the disconnect began. If it wasn't always that wasn't with him sooooo you remember how you used to get him going?
In regards to post 2 have you talked about role play at all? One way to start that one is the nurse if he is feeling under the weather. It would be a very sexy suprise! Imo that is the safest starter and easy to be private with kids in the house. Other ideas are mini role play without costumes. Tell him he is your doctor and needs to fix you!
Before attempting to go straight for the steamy session, I would find a little bit of time just for hte two of you to relax and enjoy the company of each other. Get a sitter for the night, drop the kids off, and GO BACK HOME! Enjoy a dinner together and enjoy everything around you that you have worked hard as a couple to achieve.
Maybe finish the night with a nice bath together. The romantic session will happen naturally, as it should.
Mr too soon, all of them?
- PR_Tracy
on Feb. 27, 2013 at 12:07 AM