Long story, I have a major crush on my Zumba teacher for 6 years now, when I first started taking lessons he would always flirt with me and I would flirt with him, but it wasn't until this year that we started chatting on fb and texting nothing sexual just personal stuff and other things he would give some suggestions though. So one day I took the courage and asked him if i could visit him, he said OK. I told I have from 4pm till around 5:30 pm. When I reached there ( all prepared for something more) we just talked make jokes and had a lot of fun, he kind of started to make some steamy jokes, it was already almost 5:30 pm. so he offered ice cream and he jokingly said put in on your boobs I said oh your into some weird stuff he said no I'm not, so as we finished eating the ice cream he said something about massaging me, I said yes you can massage me, he started massaging me, when he stopped I just leaned in and gave him small kisses on his cheeks then just kissed him on his lips, he didn't kiss me back , just giggled like a schoolboy, argh, so it was time to leave. I let it go thinking maybe it was nervousness. So yesterday I went to visit him again all prepared, the same thing happened again, we just talked, laughed when the time came for me to leave I just hugged him, he hugged me back and again I gave him a kiss on the lips, he didn't go along with the kissing, I gave him another kiss the same thing happened it was just a peck on the lips. But he keeps on flirting with me at Zumba class. So I don't know what to make of this, please some advice would be appreciated, maybe he is teasing me or just want my friendship nothing else? I don't know. Other guys would be all over me as soon as I closed the door. Please no bashing. Thanks
Maybe he would like to take things slowly? Why not just ask him?
Definitely ask. Just tell him he seems uncomfortable and you don't want to cause anything awkward.
Out of left feild- do you think maybe he's gay? Not trying to joke or be disrespectful. Maybe he just doesn't want to hurt your feelings or shoot, maybe he hasn't come out yet. I have a few gay friends that I can cuddle and snuggle with. I could see this being the issue.
Yeah I thought about asking him but i'm so afraid of the answer and I've also considered the possibility of him being gay. He brags too much about the various women he dated. Maybe he didn't come out of the closet that makes a lot of sense, argh just my luck, but he's a good friend nevertheless.
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- Sheila1520
on Mar. 5, 2013 at 10:43 AM