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Why cant people just say "no"....

Anonymous
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We got quite  a bit of snow here last nite and when the SO got home after working 2nd shift, we had about 4 inches.  I said to him "you could be nice and go clean my car off for me so I dont have to do it in the morning."  His reply "are you serious?  Why cant you just do it?  I mean I will if you REEEAAALLLYY (long drawn out word) want me to."  Why the mind games and not just say "no i wont do it".  Ill tell ya the time comes he wants a favor he better remember this.

Posted by Anonymous on Mar. 8, 2013 at 10:13 AM
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Jennygurl09
by on Mar. 8, 2013 at 10:16 AM
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Why didn't you clean it off yourself?

PISCIS29
by Member on Mar. 8, 2013 at 10:55 AM
Ha. I know huh? We ask a small favor and they act like we're asking them to cut off a testie or something. But when they need a favor it usually isn't a small one and we still do it. Ugh men.
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Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Mar. 8, 2013 at 10:55 AM
I did, but what is wrong with him doing something for me when I ask occasionally? It should be automatic.
Quoting Jennygurl09:

Why didn't you clean it off yourself?


tifbrown
by on Mar. 8, 2013 at 11:06 AM

When my hubby I home he does it for me. When he is gone I do it myself, or I'd never go anywhere haha.

punchnpie
by on Mar. 8, 2013 at 11:15 AM
Because no.can be boring sometimes. I would reply the same way if not meaner. If I came into the house for warmth after a day of work. Let him chill and you do it. His reply could have been worse.

Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Mar. 8, 2013 at 11:24 AM

He doesnt work outside.  Its not like he was freezing to death.


Quoting punchnpie:

Because no.can be boring sometimes. I would reply the same way if not meaner. If I came into the house for warmth after a day of work. Let him chill and you do it. His reply could have been worse.



punchnpie
by on Mar. 8, 2013 at 12:26 PM
Quoting Anonymous:




He is still tired. Gotto walk through cold to come inside.
Jennygurl09
by on Mar. 8, 2013 at 12:38 PM



Quoting Anonymous:

I did, but what is wrong with him doing something for me when I ask occasionally? It should be automatic.
Quoting Jennygurl09:

Why didn't you clean it off yourself?


Yeah but you are home while he is working. Seems silly that you couldn't go do it yourself.


Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Mar. 8, 2013 at 1:10 PM

Its kind of pointless when it was snowing almost the entire time he was gone. 


Quoting Jennygurl09:



Quoting Anonymous:

I did, but what is wrong with him doing something for me when I ask occasionally? It should be automatic.
Quoting Jennygurl09:

Why didn't you clean it off yourself?


Yeah but you are home while he is working. Seems silly that you couldn't go do it yourself.




Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Mar. 8, 2013 at 1:11 PM
oh my god. That's pathetic. But if it was his car that's okay. Holy gosh.
Quoting punchnpie:

Quoting Anonymous:




He is still tired. Gotto walk through cold to come inside.

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