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Husbands lovemaking sucks

Anonymous
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My husband and I have been married 5 months and have been together a year. I recently gave birth to our son . But even before our son was born my husbands lovemaking skills were blah!!!!!!!

We are in our early twenties and he had only slept with two women before me( girls more or less) but his sex drive in high and he is always wanting something to do with me. I should be flattered because he tells me all the time how attractive I am and stuff and that I turn him on. 

But when we are in bed his skills at love making suck.. I mean literally.

He goes to fast and too hard and is alway doing stuff he seen in pornos.


Any advice on this because I no longer want to have sex with my husband. 

Posted by Anonymous on Mar. 9, 2013 at 5:46 PM
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JenniferLDenney
by on Mar. 9, 2013 at 5:48 PM
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maybe try taking charge or telling him exactly what you want him to do.  they dont automatically know what we like unless we tell them

catrig
by Member on Mar. 9, 2013 at 5:49 PM

Tell him.  It will be awkward,but better in the long run.

Angelicembrace
by on Mar. 9, 2013 at 5:50 PM

I'd do what PP said, take charge ;).


My DF is too good, but doesn't have a high sex drive..at all. Lucky if it's once a month. lol..it's always one or the other, eh? Men smh.

Whenever life gets tough I just remember this..

The Water Temple.


ecerka
by on Mar. 9, 2013 at 5:54 PM
Talk talk and talk some more. I met my husband when he was 16 and having sex with him sucked!! As we grew together I decided to tell or show him what I like and he has done the same with me. Sex is always awesome now and I've been with him for 25 years. It may be a little embarrassing at first but Well worth it in the long run.
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Anonymous
by Anonymous 2 on Mar. 9, 2013 at 5:56 PM
I've told my DH what I like and what I don't. He has come a long way! But they don't know if we don't tell them. It's awkward at first but it's for a good cause!
jenn75
by Gold Member on Mar. 9, 2013 at 6:00 PM
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I agree with everyone else. Talk to him. Tell him what you want/like.
Don't be bitchy about it and tell him he sucks. Just say "you know what would be hot? If you did this..." Or " I really like it when you...but let's try it this way."
It will take time but if you're gentle with him, you'll be able to train him.
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nsparky1964
by on Mar. 9, 2013 at 6:16 PM
Compatibility in and out of the bedroom is vital, you need to talk to him, show him teach him how and what you like,need and want.
Kaseyrose21
by on Mar. 10, 2013 at 12:21 AM

Tell him! Be honest. He will not change until you tell him. Then try taking charge for a little while. Show him what you want. If things don't turn around after that then you have a problem...

KennyPooPoo22
by on Mar. 10, 2013 at 12:28 AM
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First stop saying lovemaking, You are a young woman, not some dried up old lady. Anything, sex, fucking, screwing, hittin' dat, is better than saying "make love". Do you know what you want? What gets you off? If you don't know than how will he? Have you tried being on top? He can't go to fast that way because you have all the control.

pinkmommy366
by on Mar. 10, 2013 at 12:33 AM

 i've been married to my hubby for 18yrs n he sucks too. i kno what u mean when u say trying to follow what they see in porn "like dude dont u kno those women get paid alot of money to make you think that it feels good." ok so have u tried to tell him softer n slower? or mayb u take charge?

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