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SO did the hottest thing EVER yesterday. (Explicit but not porn-y really)

Posted by on Mar. 19, 2013 at 12:06 PM
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Okay, to give a little backstory here, I am dating a guy for the second time. We dated for a while about 5 years ago, and we broke up because we were better as friends. We just weren't compatible - we were at different points in our lives, wanted different things in a relationship and in the bedroom. We've remained friends over the last several years. A couple months ago, we got drunk and slept together, and it was amazing, so we kind of moved into "friends with benefits" territory, and recently we've had a couple talks and a few actual dates, and we're in a semi open relationship (by that I mean that I'm polyamorous and don't like to be tied to monogamy but I'm not actively sleeping with anyone else, and he is monogamous so obviously he isn't either).

Anyway, one of the things that really made us incompatible in the bedroom years ago is the fact that he tends to be really submissive in bed. Okay, maybe not submissive, but definitely NOT dominant. But dominance is something he knows I prefer, so I have seen him making little gestures here and there that let me know he's putting it all out there, trying to please me and give me what I want. Which is really awesome, and I've made it quite clear that I appreciate it.

Night before last I spent the night with him, and yesterday morning he woke me up all excited and whatnot, and I was just not really awake yet. I said, "You can do all you want to me, but I'm probably just gonna sleep through it." He just goes, "Okay," and then BAM, there's a dick inside me. Pretty surprising, and it definitely woke me up! That's something he would never have done before!

During sex, he tried to turn me over on top of him and that's just not something I really like to do (I don't mind the position itself, but someone once told me I looked horrible from below and it really stuck so I am self conscious when I'm on top). I was like, "Eh, you know I really don't like this," and he says, "That's nice. But here's the thing... I DO." And he thrusts up really hard. So hot! It totally made me wanna ride him more, and that's something no one's ever been able to do, lol!

But that's not even the best part. The most amazing thing EVER was shorty after that. We switched positions, and he had me up on my knees doggy style. We did that for a few minutes, and then he stopped. He kissed me on my shoulder, gently pushed me down onto the bed and turned my face out of the pillow. Then he reached for my right arm, still really gently, and put it behind my back. He tapped my left arm, and I got the hint and brought it back behind my back as well. He held onto my wrists, still really gently, almost like an embrace rather than a restraint, leaned way down, and whispered into my ear... "That's my girl." And then thrusted. Hard.

OH MY FUCKING GOD. Coming from this guy, who never does or says anything like this ever, it was quite possibly the hottest damn thing he has ever done in his LIFE. True damn story. I had the best orgasm I've ever had after that!

And the even better part, was after, when we were smoking a cigarette and still breathing all heavy and such, I looked at him and told him that was the sexiest thing he'd ever done, and he looks at me all embarrassed and goes, "Really? I thought maybe... it wasn't too much?" OMG. This poor adorable angel... lol.

Anyway, just had to ramble about that for a moment! I don't have any real friends, so I had to tell someone, haha!

Posted by on Mar. 19, 2013 at 12:06 PM
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Anonymous
by Anonymous on Mar. 19, 2013 at 12:48 PM
OMG that sounded so hot!
AimSnapHolz
by Bronze Member on Mar. 19, 2013 at 12:51 PM
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It was! It was so unlike him, and then his actions after were so... cute. Lol!

AnHpuresugar
by Bronze Member on Mar. 19, 2013 at 12:54 PM

Wow.  That was amazing.  Maybe I should leave this page open for my guy to read.  Hint, hint.  ;)

baby2013143
by Member on Mar. 19, 2013 at 12:58 PM
Definately makes me miss my SO right now
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AJMcGuire
by Bronze Member on Mar. 19, 2013 at 1:00 PM

that's is wonderful..

3kidz123
by Member on Mar. 19, 2013 at 1:05 PM

I should not have read that! lol

I haven't had sex in 9 weeks (pregnancy restrictions) now I'm horny! :(

Anonymous
by Anonymous on Mar. 19, 2013 at 1:11 PM
Goddammit....my fiance won't be home from work for 10 more hours. Fml!
Anonymous
by Anonymous on Mar. 19, 2013 at 1:13 PM

Damn, better than a magazine Forum.....Good for you, I hope you see him again for a repeat!!!

notabosley
by Jennie on Mar. 19, 2013 at 1:34 PM
That was hot!
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emerald111
by Bronze Member on Mar. 19, 2013 at 1:44 PM

That was hot!!

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