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i know this is NOT normal and that i need help. NO rude comments please. ***UPDATE

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I get so jealous when my husband watches porn, only because he watches it after i ask him to have sex and he denys me or if i just had sex with him and he watches it or sneaks behind my back and watches it. it just really bugs me and i know that it is my insecurities getting to me. I am very insecure about my boobs and if i am pleasing him during sex. we use to have sex all the time and now he never wants it. I try spicing it up with role playing or toys or hot fantasy outfits. I honestly feel like i have lost my confidence after i found him watching porn on the couch trying to sneak it and after i asked him to have sex. to me it bothers me because i feel like im not good at pleasing my man and the way those girls please those guys, i feel like i have to match up to them and i know i shouldnt feel like that. I have no clue how to get over this. please no rude comments.


Hello all! Thank you so much for your responses....I am just getting so let down and i am tired of being rejected, last night for the first time he went to bed in the other room because he wanted to sleep alone, i know he wasnt watching porn because his phone was out in the livingroom and i had the laptop. so...im starting to think somethings wrong with me....and i asked him tonight if he wanted to have sex tonight and he said no and then i asked if he was going to sleep in the bed with me tonight and he also said no to that....i dont know whats wrong, i barely ever see him because of his job so i cherish the time we have together, everything was fine today we went to the movies and saw the movie Temptation it just came out today and it was amazing, it made me cry because its about a girl being emotionally neglected by her husband he barely notices her and it reminded me of me and him. The only difference was i wouldnt cheat on him, i am not going to lie i kind thought about wanting a man to treat me right, show me love&affection. Im not sure if im wrong to be having those thoughts, im not happy, i use to be so happy with him and now...nothing. he changed. im actually crying as i write this. i just want the old him back...

by on Mar. 29, 2013 at 12:34 AM
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Megzboys
by on Apr. 6, 2013 at 12:00 AM

  He is neglecting you and choosing porn?  That is never acceptable!  He needs to be told how that hurts you and your marriage when he chooses porn over intimacy with you, his wife.  He is not being a proper husband at all.   He has not know that he is hurting your feelings, damaging your self esteem and it has to stop!   He owes you bedroom time and a real explaination as to why he is behaving like this when he has a wife that will give him real love?

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