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He wants a threesome but I don't I've even gone as far as to tell him if he wants two girls I want two guys that shut him up for a while but now he's back at it what should I do?????
Posted by Anonymous on Apr. 3, 2013 at 12:14 PM
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Baby1809
by on Apr. 3, 2013 at 12:18 PM
I Think If Your Not Comfortable With It Don't Do It Because It Will Always Bother You. Good Luck Girl.
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KrazyLoveMommy
by on Apr. 3, 2013 at 12:19 PM
Kick him in the balls?
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Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Apr. 3, 2013 at 1:15 PM
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@baby1809 thank you @krazylovemommy bahaha I've thought about it but I want more babies one day lol
SareyF
by on Apr. 3, 2013 at 1:26 PM
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Tell him you're not budging and that he's disrespecting you and your marriage by pushing this and by wanting to be sexual with another person when you're not cool with it. You don't HAVE to feel ok about it and you don't have to cave. If he wants to spice things up, there are other ways.
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momoftwo0406
by on Apr. 3, 2013 at 1:31 PM
If you don't want it then tell him absolutely NO and he needs to drop it because it won't happen. It's not something anyone should feel forced into because it will ruin the relationship.
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Dimples303
by on Apr. 3, 2013 at 2:00 PM

I have had a few threesomes in my life and my husband knows this... He has asked if we could have one but I feel like I would just flip out. lol He gets annoyed that I have had them but wont do it with him, but its because I love him to much and want him all to myself. lol I would say if you dont want to do it, than dont!! 

Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Apr. 3, 2013 at 2:09 PM
That seems to be my thing I don't wanna share
KrazyLoveMommy
by on Apr. 3, 2013 at 2:11 PM
Then don't. Plain and simple.

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That seems to be my thing I don't wanna share
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Anonymous
by Anonymous 2 on Apr. 3, 2013 at 2:12 PM
Tell him no.
bqt
by on Apr. 3, 2013 at 2:12 PM
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maybe offer to watch 3 some porn together. my dh and i do this in regards to sex acts im not actually comfortable doing. its pretty sexy.


but definately do NOT let him push you to cave to do something you dont want to. i'm not a big supporter of 3somes in committed relationships. while it can be ok for some it is not the majority and definately not if anyone has any reservations. make sure he understands you are willing to participate in the FANTASY but that it stays a FANTASY.

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