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sometimes painful *TMI*

Anonymous
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Ok so usually sex with my so is great. No pain nothing. But I have noticed if he's behind me I have pain. Almost like stretching my episiotomy (sp?) Scar. Almost a tearing feeling that hurts like hell. How can I make it better or go away? Is it because he is well above average? I've never had this pain with anyone else.
Posted by Anonymous on Apr. 3, 2013 at 1:14 PM
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SareyF
by on Apr. 3, 2013 at 1:18 PM
Are you wet enough? Use extra lube. You can actually work on the perenium, massaging and gently stretching it. Or you could stop having sex in that position.
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Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Apr. 3, 2013 at 2:51 PM
Definitely wet enough. Even happens with extra lube. And ivguess ill try massage lol ty


Quoting SareyF:

Are you wet enough? Use extra lube. You can actually work on the perenium, massaging and gently stretching it. Or you could stop having sex in that position.

anj2mom
by on Apr. 4, 2013 at 11:17 PM
Have u thought to call your ob gyn? They might have an answer for u.
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KRIZZ25
by Silver Member on Apr. 4, 2013 at 11:19 PM
if it hurt it ant good.
Mommy2JAJ
by Member on Apr. 5, 2013 at 7:55 PM
It hurts my epesiotomy scar to have sex sideways. Sometimes I even get tiny tears down there. I never had this problem before the second baby.
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Proud.mama.of2
by Member on Apr. 5, 2013 at 8:02 PM
I Have That Problem too & I've Never Had An Epesiotomy. That Position Always Hurts Me So I Don't Do It Anymore. Why Do Something That Isn't Enjoyable.
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kelliehelvie
by on Apr. 5, 2013 at 8:03 PM
Arch your back and lower yourself with your arms so your booty is higher.
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mybaby77
by on Apr. 5, 2013 at 8:58 PM
I used to have ovarian cysts (sp) and when I would have dogystyle sex it would hurt....
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