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Posted by on Apr. 3, 2013 at 10:14 PM
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I feel my dh doesnt find me sexualy attractive anymore, we only have sex like four times a month. When we got married two years ago we had sex everyday and a few times a day. When I talk to him about it he tells me he does find me sexualy attractive. I have worn sexy outfits around him and we dont really watch porn unless its one of the 4 times we do have sex
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MommyDearest555
by on Apr. 3, 2013 at 10:18 PM
Hmm. Have you tried asking him if there is something that you have done recently during to cause him to not want it as much? Or maybe extra stress or worries causing him to not be in the mood?
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MrsLuciano02
by on Apr. 3, 2013 at 10:21 PM
I have but he doesnt like to talk about it. Not sure what would be stressing him, he doesnt work, might just have to keep asking

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Hmm. Have you tried asking him if there is something that you have done recently during to cause him to not want it as much? Or maybe extra stress or worries causing him to not be in the mood?
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MommyDearest555
by on Apr. 3, 2013 at 10:41 PM
Bummer. Has anything changed in your lives together drastically around the time this started? I would continue asking here and there till you get an answer. Ask nicely of course, you catch more bees with honey ;) but you have needs too and they need met more than that!
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Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 on Apr. 3, 2013 at 10:48 PM

Is he stressed or worried about something?

MrsLuciano02
by on Apr. 4, 2013 at 1:54 AM
Not that I know of he hasnt said anything to me

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Is he stressed or worried about something?

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MrsLuciano02
by on Apr. 4, 2013 at 1:56 AM
Nope, nothing has changed. Ever since our mc in 2011 we have been closer then ever

Quoting MommyDearest555:

Bummer. Has anything changed in your lives together drastically around the time this started? I would continue asking here and there till you get an answer. Ask nicely of course, you catch more bees with honey ;) but you have needs too and they need met more than that!
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nothinbutsmiles
by on Apr. 4, 2013 at 2:36 AM
You said he doesn't work... Is this something that bothers him? I know when my S.O. was unemployed it bothered him a LOT. He said not providing for us made him feel like he wasn't doing his job, made him feel like less of a man.
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nothinbutsmiles
by on Apr. 4, 2013 at 2:36 AM
You said he doesn't work... Is this something that bothers him? I know when my S.O. was unemployed it bothered him a LOT. He said not providing for us made him feel like he wasn't doing his job, made him feel like less of a man.
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MrsLuciano02
by on Apr. 4, 2013 at 7:40 AM
It did in the beging of our marriage but not so much now, he is looking for work but where we live there isnt much he can do

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You said he doesn't work... Is this something that bothers him? I know when my S.O. was unemployed it bothered him a LOT. He said not providing for us made him feel like he wasn't doing his job, made him feel like less of a man.
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nothinbutsmiles
by on Apr. 4, 2013 at 11:08 AM
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Hmmm... Maybe it's bothering him more than he's letting on. Guys are funny about that sorta thing.

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It did in the beging of our marriage but not so much now, he is looking for work but where we live there isnt much he can do



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You said he doesn't work... Is this something that bothers him? I know when my S.O. was unemployed it bothered him a LOT. He said not providing for us made him feel like he wasn't doing his job, made him feel like less of a man.
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