About a year ago my ex bf cheated on me while he was working offshore...with TWO other MEN!
I had no clue about it and after his hitch, he came home and of course we had sex like we usually did.. Then his offshore roommate sent me pics of my ex and two other guys 'in the act!' and warned me to go get checked... sure enough, there i was sitting in the dr office finding out that i now have HSV2 (genital herpes) and a cheating bf...
But that wasnt all... i also had a miscarriage while finding all of this out... talk about CRUSHED!
Needless to say, he and i dont talk anymore and he has never once even apologized.
On the other hand, the new bf and i have been together about 6 months and waited 5 months to even have sex with each other. We were friends before we started dating and i told him about my 'condition' waaayyyy ahead of time!
My bf is an AMAZING man and does more than he realizes for my son and myself.
Our sex life is hot! And it's hard for us to get around each other without some form of touching or kissing.. WE LOVE IT!
Im not on birth control, but i do take my daily meds for HSV2 twice a day every day so that i wont have an outbreak and i cant spread it to my hun.. He insist on using a condom, which im okay with because neither of us are ready for another child right now, but he complains sometimes about the condom reducing the feeling of 'ME'......
We are always very open about everything , but lately ive wondered if he really wants the condoms because of a pregnancy scare or because of my HSV2....
Should i just ask him???