My bf is depressed because his brother has been given 4-6 weeks to live. The brother lives on the other side of the country. I understand that the bf is going through a lot BUT damn it is getting so annoying. He just sits in the chair and stares off into space watching tv or the only thing he wants to do is go get something to eat. He has no energy to do anything. Im not asking him to go do things that require money or much energy but this is insane. He does still talk a little bit. Like last nite I went to bed at 8:30 because he was just so boring to be around. I woke up a few times on the couch and he was just sitting there. At 2 he woke me up and said he was going to bed. We got to bed, he was hard, started fooling around a little bit and then he just laid there with an arm around me. I dont even want to come on to him or finish anything because he is plain ole boring during the day, that I have no desire to just have sex. What to do?
I have bought him a ticket to go see his brother, and he won't go. I have been telling him for months that he should go see him, and he drags his feet and has yet to go.