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I'm 29, been married for 7 years and I've never orgasmed. I need advice. I've lost all interest in sex because I'm frustrated with it.
Posted by Anonymous on Apr. 28, 2013 at 9:54 AM
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PartyGalAnne
by on Apr. 29, 2013 at 7:16 PM
This entire issue is about you not feeling comfortable, and knowing your own body.
If you didn't orgasm, how did you know it was time to stop?


Quoting Anonymous:

I haven't masturbated but a few times and no I've never orgasmed.




Quoting PartyGalAnne:

What about while masturbating?


Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Apr. 29, 2013 at 7:17 PM
Thanks everyone!! I have been relaxed the last 2 nights and have been reading erotic novels to get me in the mood which helps a lot! I'm willing to watch porn with my husband too which I think will help (I've watched it before with him years ago). My husband is going to get me a toy and some tingling cream : ). I think part of the problem was when I was in college, I was stressed. Then got a full time job, then became a mommy!!! I just have to learn to get out of mommy mode and into wife mode! I'm going to enjoy sex and I think it will happen. I need to let that mental block down!
Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Apr. 29, 2013 at 7:32 PM
Sometimes I'd lose the feeling or my husband would cum


Quoting PartyGalAnne:

This entire issue is about you not feeling comfortable, and knowing your own body.

If you didn't orgasm, how did you know it was time to stop?




Quoting Anonymous:

I haven't masturbated but a few times and no I've never orgasmed.






Quoting PartyGalAnne:

What about while masturbating?



court_1989
by on May. 1, 2013 at 6:30 AM
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I'm 24 and a 2 months ago had my first!!!!!my bf gave it to me.....dunno exactly what he did but it was soooo amazing....all I can say is try to relax
youngmom0047
by on May. 1, 2013 at 9:18 AM

Hell you need a woman friend.. and i would say the sonner the better

Anonymous
by Anonymous 5 on May. 1, 2013 at 12:56 PM
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I never had a orgasmed either! I don't want to hurt my husband's feelings so I pretend I do. Then later I'll please myself. I never can get anywhere close to having one.

Mama_Pollito
by on May. 1, 2013 at 1:09 PM
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i felt like that about a year ago, and the thing was i couldn't even make myself have one alone or with a partner and my husband suggest to do some breathing and stretches before having sex so i can keep my mind calm and just focus on sex and mission accomplished!  I'm a person that cant stop thinking about the stuff i have to get done the next day at home and work and while we were having sex i was thinking about all that other stuff at the same time and just didnt work, so now before we start i have to do some yoga or exercise

Qahhara
by on May. 1, 2013 at 1:41 PM
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You should buy a toy. Preferably one with a dildo and a bullet on top with bunny ears that massage the clit area. You will orgasm with no problem. I have never orgasmed until I got one. And it helps you to know what you need to do with your mate to reach orgasm. Kinda to know your body better and how relaxed you need to be. Hope this helped!

Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on May. 1, 2013 at 9:30 PM
I'm def not sexually attracted to women but thanks for trying to help : )


Quoting youngmom0047:

Hell you need a woman friend.. and i would say the sonner the better


PRbyTracy
by on May. 2, 2013 at 8:04 AM
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You need a bullet! I sell that kind of stuff so trust me. I've had so many women tell me they can't until I show them what to use. You need to start alone though or the expectation will be too high and it won't happen. Learn how to use it yourself then introduce your partner!
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