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Problems w/masturbating

Anonymous
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I've been having a problem cumming the last few times I've done it myself and I don't know why. I've tried porn, toys lube, and nothing seems to be working. I have no trouble when my husband is doing it, so I think it might be a mental block for some reason.
Posted by Anonymous on Jul. 16, 2013 at 11:16 PM
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alymommy1
by on Jul. 17, 2013 at 12:01 AM
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Its just not the same when you do it yourself!

PartyGalAnne
by on Jul. 17, 2013 at 2:02 AM

No one loves you like you! It should be awesome!

What are you afraid of?

Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Jul. 17, 2013 at 9:50 AM
It should be, but lately it's not, and I'm not afraid of anything. I don't know what the problem is, but I'm pretty sure it's not physical because after I posted this last night I talked to my husband about it and he gave me several amazing orgasms.
The last time I was actually able to give myself an orgasm it was so unsatisfying it's not even funny, so I did it for like another half hour to try to have another and it was only slightly better than the first.


Quoting PartyGalAnne:

No one loves you like you! It should be awesome!

What are you afraid of?


Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Jul. 17, 2013 at 9:52 AM
I've always felt that way, I usually only have one orgasm when I masturbate, but when I'm with my husband I can't even count how many I have.


Quoting alymommy1:

Its just not the same when you do it yourself!


alymommy1
by on Jul. 17, 2013 at 11:04 PM

Same here! Its great!


Quoting Anonymous:

I've always felt that way, I usually only have one orgasm when I masturbate, but when I'm with my husband I can't even count how many I have.


Quoting alymommy1:

Its just not the same when you do it yourself!




MesDennis20
by on Jul. 17, 2013 at 11:26 PM

Sometimes I have a hard time getting off by myself. It's just not the same as being with someone else

Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Jul. 18, 2013 at 10:53 AM
I've never had this much trouble before, usually I only have a hard time having an orgasm if I can't get wet, like if in close to ny period I'm dryer, but that's not the problem either since I'm only 3 weeks postpartum and I'm breastfeeding.


Quoting MesDennis20:

Sometimes I have a hard time getting off by myself. It's just not the same as being with someone else


Anonymous
by Anonymous 2 on Jul. 18, 2013 at 9:38 PM

IDK, that happens to me sometimes

Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Jul. 19, 2013 at 3:19 PM
I think part of it is I couldn't relax because I finally did it last night. I was about to give up because the baby was being so fussy, but I couldn't fall asleep.


Quoting Anonymous:

IDK, that happens to me sometimes


Amber5151
by Member on Jul. 19, 2013 at 3:43 PM
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Well there is your problem! You just has a baby and are breast feeding! Those two things throw off a ton of hormones! I wasn't able to get off by my self after baby until this month, baby is 18 months old and I'm still breastfeeding but my period just came back, sending my sex drive into over drive like it was before!


Quoting Anonymous:

I've never had this much trouble before, usually I only have a hard time having an orgasm if I can't get wet, like if in close to ny period I'm dryer, but that's not the problem either since I'm only 3 weeks postpartum and I'm breastfeeding.




Quoting MesDennis20:

Sometimes I have a hard time getting off by myself. It's just not the same as being with someone else



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