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Sex Confession: Wife Realizes She's Into Wilder Things After Years of Marriage

Posted by on Jul. 24, 2013 at 8:47 AM
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Sex Confession: Wife Realizes She's Into Wilder Things After Years of Marriage

by Michele Zipp

do not disturb"Sex Confessions" is a series featuring your naughtiest bedroom secrets and fantasies. Some will sound familiar, others may give you ideas, some will turn you on, and some are dark and twisted. You might want to sit down for this.

Once you're married for a certain amount of years, for some your sex life could wane, maybe even get a little boring and expected. This is definitely not the case for Cara*, a 40-something mom of two, who has just unleashed her inner sex kitten. Her husband Roger* is certainly not complaining. It all started one night recently when both kids were away at camp and they found themselves in an empty house with a bottle of wine. I'll let Cara take it from here.

I've always thought that Roger and I had a great sex life. We did, and we do. I've always been satisfied. But we've been together for over 10 years and we've probably done it all a few times and nothing could really shock us or make us have that new relationship feeling. Or so I thought. I'm not sure what's going on with me or us but things are crazy good.

About a month or so ago, Roger and I had a bottle of wine without eating any dinner while the kids were away at camp. We had the house to ourselves and were just picking on some chips and drinking wine while trying to decide what to make for dinner. We ended up drinking more wine, not eating, and making out in the kitchen. Something felt new between us. I was sure it was the wine since I rarely drink. But that newness carried on to the next week and the next even without me having a sip. That night we tried some out of the norm stuff. He went down on me for longer than he usually does. He even put a finger in my butt. Things we hadn't done in a really, really long time and with a focus that we were setting time aside just for us. We had music on, lit candles ... all that romantic stuff that sort of went by the wayside long ago.

That night changed everything. I'm wearing lingerie now ... again. We make more time for each other and for making love. We are trying things I never thought I'd try. I love it. I need it. I feel sexually energized and amazing. So does Roger. And it's obviously brought us closer. We are more intimate and loving to each other even when we are not having sex. It's exactly what our marriage needed -- exactly what we both needed.

Can you relate to Cara?

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flowerchild0315
by on Jul. 24, 2013 at 10:27 AM

Good for you guys. I can only dream.....

baby4at38
by Member on Jul. 24, 2013 at 10:40 AM

 yes I can definately relate.  I am 44 and after almost 20 yrs of marriage (Nov) and 4 children I am finally coming out of my shell...not all the way yet..but I am trying new things and wanting to try new things where as before I was strait missionary and hurry up and be done....now I am all over the place and wanting more....Makes me want it even now as I am talking about it....

 

 

jenn75
by Gold Member on Jul. 24, 2013 at 11:52 AM
I wouldn't call a finger up her butt being "wild" but I get what they're trying to say. It's good for you and the relationship go out side your norm and its good to reconnect with your spouse.
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just4mychildren
by on Jul. 24, 2013 at 12:30 PM

Cara I can totally relate with you. I am 26 yrs old and been married for 4 years. My husband the first 3 years was very shy and would just do boring sex. Until I told him about the 50 shades of grey book and how i wish he would be more open to new things. So one day I got home from work and he just took me into the bedroom and made me put on some lingerie he had bought me. Sex was amazing. Now everyday he sends me naughty texts while at work and at least once a week he has a new toy and outfit for me to wear. I dont know if its because he is competitive and felt the need to compete with a fiction character, But it worked. Can not complain now. Just wish he had unleashed this beast 3 years ago. 

sugamummy
by on Jul. 24, 2013 at 3:54 PM
Good for you clara, I am still hoping...
GarysWife1991
by on Jul. 24, 2013 at 6:15 PM

 I've always been the more adventurous one who would do and try almost anything at least once.  But dh and I both realize how important changing things up in the bedroom is to keep the spice in our marriage and we do.  After 6 plus years we still have sex almost every day and we both totally love each other.

Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 on Jul. 25, 2013 at 9:52 PM

Our sex life got WAY spicer since we tied the knot 6 years ago

TheJs
by on Jul. 26, 2013 at 12:54 AM
ours too

Quoting Anonymous:

Our sex life got WAY spicer since we tied the knot 6 years ago

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