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Does having a baby effect your sex life with your boyfriend after the baby is born?

Posted by on Jul. 24, 2013 at 7:48 PM
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Just wondering because since my daughter was born in april, my bf dont want to have sex. :(

by on Jul. 24, 2013 at 7:48 PM
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Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 on Jul. 24, 2013 at 7:49 PM
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Didnt really with my husband and I.
shaunaleigh418
by Bronze Member on Jul. 24, 2013 at 7:50 PM

How old are you? Maybe he's afraid of getting you pregnant again.

shaunaleigh418
by Bronze Member on Jul. 24, 2013 at 7:50 PM
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Same here. He could barely wait the 6 weeks to get back at it lol.

Quoting Anonymous:

Didnt really with my husband and I.


Natashaxo
by on Jul. 24, 2013 at 7:52 PM

im 20 and hes 21 :/

Anonymous
by Anonymous 2 on Jul. 24, 2013 at 7:52 PM
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With many people it does. It's not always an attraction issue, you are both going to be tired a lot, exhausted, stressed, etc. A baby can throw quite a curveball into your sex life. Especially if you cosleep.
Natashaxo
by on Jul. 24, 2013 at 7:54 PM

oh my gosh yeah i co-sleep cause i breastfeeed.. but when baby sleep, He still dont want to and i ask him why, he says cause i might be looser cause this my second child and i naturally delievered.. He make me feel insecure!

Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 on Jul. 24, 2013 at 7:55 PM
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We didnt last 6 weeks lmao. 10 days. *hides*

Quoting shaunaleigh418:

Same here. He could barely wait the 6 weeks to get back at it lol.

Quoting Anonymous:

Didnt really with my husband and I.


shaunaleigh418
by Bronze Member on Jul. 24, 2013 at 7:57 PM

I was still bleeding and in serious pain at 10 days. :/ The first time we waited the full 6 weeks. The second time it was 3-4 weeks.

Quoting Anonymous:

We didnt last 6 weeks lmao. 10 days. *hides*

Quoting shaunaleigh418:

Same here. He could barely wait the 6 weeks to get back at it lol.

Quoting Anonymous:

Didnt really with my husband and I.



shaunaleigh418
by Bronze Member on Jul. 24, 2013 at 7:58 PM
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Whooooaaaa!! What a dick. I had two kids and I'm fine. He sounds very immature.

Quoting Natashaxo:

oh my gosh yeah i co-sleep cause i breastfeeed.. but when baby sleep, He still dont want to and i ask him why, he says cause i might be looser cause this my second child and i naturally delievered.. He make me feel insecure!


aandt1999
by on Jul. 24, 2013 at 7:59 PM
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Well he's being ignorant. That's how women have been having babies since the beginning of time. Does he just not plan on sleeping with you ever again?


Quoting Natashaxo:

oh my gosh yeah i co-sleep cause i breastfeeed.. but when baby sleep, He still dont want to and i ask him why, he says cause i might be looser cause this my second child and i naturally delievered.. He make me feel insecure!


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