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Smokers, is it that big of a deal?

Anonymous
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I am not a smoker.  DH is.  After we have sex he (almost) always goes out to the deck for a cigarette.  To me this just puts a dmaper on the mood.  I want to cuddle afterwards, not lay there looking at my pillow.  Is it that hard to wait until morning? (not bashing)

Posted by Anonymous on Oct. 26, 2013 at 1:39 PM
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Anonymous
by Anonymous 2 on Oct. 26, 2013 at 1:40 PM
My dh doesn't but his smoking causes me to not want to cuddle with ever.
mom2bahandcch
by Member on Oct. 26, 2013 at 1:45 PM
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It can be depending on how much he smokes, and a cigarette was always better in the morning, after eating and after sex.
GarysWife1991
by on Oct. 26, 2013 at 1:49 PM

 I always do but dh doesn't mind.  If it bothered dh then I would wait till later.  There's just something about having a cigarette after sex that is so relaxing.

MyMyOhMy
by Silver Member on Oct. 26, 2013 at 2:23 PM
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Its one of the most power addictions known. As hard or harder to kick than heroin or crack. He has to feed his monkey.

If you want to grow old with him, get him off the stuff.

Emma7-11-09
by on Oct. 26, 2013 at 2:26 PM
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I always know it was REALLY good if he goes out to smoke! He smokes before bed and thats the only time anything happens is when we go to bed. If he doesn't smoke after I dont get upset I know it was good for him just not BLOWN away lol Most of the time he does smoke after :)

whitleypittman
by Member on Oct. 26, 2013 at 2:27 PM
Mine smokes, but he enjoys the afterglow better than a cigarette.
SareyF
by on Oct. 26, 2013 at 2:33 PM
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Dh and I always went out for a smoke after sex. I could have waited but it would have been nagging at me until I did it. Maybe you could reach a compromise? Like he could snuggle you a bit before he goes to smoke?
Waiting til morning would be hard. That addiction is really rough.
floridamom34601
by Member on Oct. 26, 2013 at 8:17 PM

I smoke, but my DH doesn't. He doesn't mind when I go smoke a cigarette though.

mrs-jt
by on Oct. 26, 2013 at 8:21 PM
My h doesn't smoke but I wouldn't like that either. Not a fan of smoking at all
Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Oct. 27, 2013 at 2:32 PM

Thanks ladies.  He does stay and cuddle sometimes, just wish it were more

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