Afraid I'm not good enough.

[Anonymous]

I am afraid that I'm not good enough sometimes for my df. His wife in my eyes was perfect. She was beautiful, creative, kind, and everyone loved her. It has been 8 years since she passed away and I can tell it still really hurts him when the anniversary of her death comes around each year. I think I am just feeling insecure because well I gained 40lbs with our dd and I still have not lost it and it has been a year and a half already. Also I know why they got married so fast but it still bothers me because we are not getting married until 4 years of being together. Just somethings bother me and I know its an insecurity of mine but it just hard to well not let it get to me.

Sorry I just had to get that out.

[Anonymous - Original Poster]

Quoting LEXCEE:

they say beauty is in the eyes of the beholder_dont try to compete,just be the person he fell in love with /as 4 ur weight -----always eat breakfeast-4 lunch have a salad-then at five or 6 eat ur regular meal but nothing after that.and if u get really hungry  and u cant stand it any more make  salad-try this for a month and u will see the pounds come off---alex

Thank you very much.