i was with baby daddy, we were together for 6 years. in that time frame i have cheated on him three time. on the last one i got pregnant. his 5year old son, well its not his. thankfully my son looks like me, so he never questioned it. the real baby daddy is really dead beat, always in jail, i think this time he is in for life, so rumors say he killed some one. should i confess now or leave it as it is.
update
so, yea, it got to his ears. he had requested me to do a DNA test. i fought for a lil asking y know and y he don't believe me. he says iv been hearing rumours. i say that's what it is just rumors. so, forget about it. so he does the DNA behind my back. i must be blessed, the boy is his...YAY. tho i will never say i had an affair. now that is off my chest. and i never had to confess.
Quoting Anonymous:I don't think you should tell him now. After 5 years, just let it be.
I've been with my hubby for 4 years. 2 years into it, we split up. I swore I'd never go back to him. I met a guy, slept with him, got pregnant, and now I'm back with hubby after a 3 month split. He knows I slept with someone else and there's a possibility that our baby isn't his. He's horrible with dates and I've convinced him that our son is his, but deep down I don't think he is.
It's a hard thing but u needa tell. It's selfish not to. It will cause stress and problems but in the long run, clear air is best. As long as he's been in the baby's life, he prob won't walk out on him. But your son deserves to know who his real dad is as well as that his 'daddy' chose to be his dad (that's what i tell my DD since her bio dad is dead beat). For medical reasons, you and your son need to know bio dad's info. Honesty is always best policy to prevent 5 year old lies...your son and your good man deserve better
Quoting Anonymous:I've been with my hubby for 4 years. 2 years into it, we split up. I swore I'd never go back to him. I met a guy, slept with him, got pregnant, and now I'm back with hubby after a 3 month split. He knows I slept with someone else and there's a possibility that our baby isn't his. He's horrible with dates and I've convinced him that our son is his, but deep down I don't think he is.
im glad im no the only one


