was it love,money,didnt want to e alone ...be honest
I married my hubby because I knew he completed me when I got to know him. He also cared for me more than things he owned and stuff he wanted.
You must not be getting laid enough.
Get off here and hop on your man.
this is my 100 percent honest, no sugar coating answer. when i met him, i had no intrest in men at all. i had just left a very abusive relationship and was a single mother. all i cared about was giving my son a good life in any way that i could. but bryan (my DH) was such a caring, nice, loving guy in general. something i had literally never seen before. so i think thats what made me initally fall for him. even now, he drives me crazy sometimes but he is still the same guy. and i havent ever seen anyone meet him and not like him, he has no enemies at all. when we started talking relationships, i was reluctant at first but eventually realized, part of giving my son the best of everything meant he should have a father, a really good one. so i snagged my husband and about two years later, we got married. (:
I married my dh because he became my best friend. He treated me differently than any other guy I had ever been with. He has loved me unconditionally and although he is far from perfect he always tries to make me happy, make me smile and make me laugh. We had absolutely no money when we were together lol.
We were off and on for the first couple of years not serious. I was going through alot of things I had just ended my relationship with my entire family. He was there for me when no one else was.. I couldn't get out of my own way to see who he was I was in survival mode. When I stood up on my own two feet and was ready to have a real relationship. I started dating and realized the I knew where to find the person I was looking for.
I liked my husband from the first moment I saw him :) He fit the list of things, as far as looks go, that I had made when I was 14yrs old, lol. 6' or taller, brown hair, blue (or green but he has blue) eyes, not fat, not skinny, and wears glasses (what can I say, I was 14). The first time we officially met, it was at a party for a mutual friend and we talked for 5hrs straight. I was 26 and a single mom and he was 34 with no kids. I knew that first night that I would marry him somehow, some way. And a year later we DID get married! Not only do I love him, I also like him very much. He has his quirks, of course, as I have mine, but I've never met another guy like him. In addition to my daughter, we also have 2 kids together and I've never been happier. He is helpful, responsible, very loving, and I know he would do anything for our family. As an example of how awesome he is- while I was preggo (both times) I couldn't stand meat for a while, he went vegetarian with me. I couldn't drink (obviously) so he didn't have so much as a beer for entirety of both my pregnancies. He changed our cat's litterbox without being reminded :) These days he does all the grocery shopping and always takes at least one kid with him, if not both the older ones, to give me a break. When he gets off work (i'm a SAHM) he pitches in to help out rather than veg out in front of the t.v. If I haven't gotten around to vacuuming, dishes, or sweeping that day because the kids were a handful, he does it. He is truly a good man :)
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