My husband is not the father of my daughter, my first child. He knows it though and I know it. It's an ex-boyfriend's baby who left me while I was pregnant. I met my husband at a job shortly after and we became friends, fell in love, and he became my daughter's father. I was always honest with him. Certain family members knows this, but not everyone and no friends. My husband is wonderful, and he IS the father. DNA means nothing. He proposed on her first birthday and we are expecting our third child in May of next year. OUR daughter is now 5 and a total Daddy's girl.