Why does it bother you so much when a woman has an abortion?
Here is the thing, it has nothing to do with you. It's not your body and it's not your potential baby. It affects you in no way, shape or form. If you believe that people who do it are committing murder, well murder happens all the time. Children get murdered, adults get murdered, elderly people get murdered. Girls go missing and are never seen again, but I don't see you walking the streets holding signs that say "Don't murder It's bad". I do however see you sitting in front of clinics with signs of fetuses, etc. How is it worse that a fetus gets suctioned out of the woman's womb than when a little 6 yr old child gets molested and murdered? Yet you do nothing about the latter.
You waste your time sitting outside of a clinic instead. How many women have left because you shouted, "YOU MURDERER!", and how many have given you an uncomfortable look or shed a tear as they went inside, and had it done anyway? I am sure it is probably 1 out of every 1 million who leave because you scream at them and hold signs. It's probably even less than that.
What you are not considering is the fact that by the time a girl or woman is walking into that clinic, their decision has already been made. They have decided well before they saw your signs. I know when I had my 2 abortions, it would have taken God himself striking me down with lightning to change my mind, and even than, if I could have still managed to crawl into the building, I would have done it. I had no other way out. There was nothing I could do and this was the only way out. Both times there were women just like you sitting there screaming. Both times, not one person cancelled, or walked away, or listened to you, and 99% of us didn't even look at you before going in.
So how in the hell does it affect you so badly? Do you really believe that my fetus will be the one to grow up and cure cancer? Or be the next president? What if my fetus, unwanted, and unloved, and unable to be cared for properly, because I wasn't ready by any means, because a serial killer, the next Hitler, a drug dealer who gets stiffed by your fetus someday and shoots him or her? Because both are just as possible.
It's not your kid. If you want to adopt, don't blame me for not getting a kid. It is hard and expensive to get any kid. If you couldn't afford to adopt someone else's kid, how do you expect to be able to afford to adopt MINE? If you want to adopt, go ahead, but as I have stated before, my fetus does not have a label slapped on it, "Property of this poor sad woman who can't have a baby of her own". If your one of these women, I am so sorry you couldn't have a baby, but it's not my fault, my problem, my duty to fix it for you, or anything else. It's YOUR problem. Now I do feel sorry for you, but I don't feel sorry enough to go through 9 months of pregnancy, a painful labor and delivery, and the emotional toll it would take on me to hand my child to you to raise, all because you can't have kids. You have no rights over me, my body, or my fetus. I decide what happens to that. If you don't like it, oh friggin well, deal.
So please, HOW does this AFFECT YOU?